@millenialboomer:
(to the extent you're not just trolling)
On the one hand, I sort of get where you're coming from. On the other hand, guys and girls who are just really good friends have had to deal with this sort of bullshit since forever (see: "Guys and girls can't be best friends, it will always turn into romance!" trope, which I know a good many people believe, to a greater or lesser extent, implicitly or explicitly, IRL). Guy-friends having to deal with it now too (on account of gay relationships no longer being taboo everywhere) doesn't really introduce a new problem as such; if anything, I hope it will in the long run force us to develop the mental vocabulary to acknowledge that there are "really close and affectionate friends" whose feelings and interactions overlap with what we think of as being vaguely in the realm of romance, but who aren't interested in other aspects of what we think of as romance—without regards to gender.
It's not like we're fundamentally incapable. For whatever reason, a lot of people treat girl-girl relationships correctly in this regard (close affection is okay; romance is totally conceivable but not assumed just because there is affection. If there's fuzzy uncertain overlap that's okay too).
(Though I feel all that has arguably somewhat besides the point for this series in particular—or at least, by my reading, this one is
deliberately invoking specific gay romance tropes from BL manga, right and left. Which, to the extent that it is so, seems a different matter entirely, and likely the source of all the sarcastic "yeah,
sure it isn't meant to be gay, author," responses, including, as full disclosure, some of my own snark vaguely along those lines.)