Both Queen and Countess are exactly what you would expect from a place where women are only required to look pretty and marry well - of course she's not gonna consider the other possibilities, she did everything "right" and was "rewarded" for it. Is pure and simple privileged mindset, everybody likes to see themselves as the underdog and ignore how harder life can be to other people.
Ty for this massive update and all the hard work and care you guys had!!!