Even if it's accidental, I like that she has some fight in her.
He's a little bit of a blunt bastard. Probably obliviously so.
And then he tells her to consider how he feels... Absolutely no capacity for self reflection.
So he was a bastard from the start.
I mean, he's right. The inside of her head is pink. That's at least one colour the brain has.
While it's a bit reckless to bet on something as vague like that, she does have a good spine.