Ameagari no Bokura ni Tsuite - Vol. 1 Ch. 4

[MangaDex]

 

[StrabeDevicles]

Mister please don’t be stupid and accept your hubby’s feelings

Thanks for the update ! It really is a lovely manga.

 

[Leomonade]

ummm It shouldn't matter if he is gay or not. If he rejected the coworker's feelings to their face, that should be enough. There doesn't need to be a big reason to reject someone. If you aren't interested, then you aren't interested and that's that!
I know both of the women didn't mean anything bad but they were being really annoying and kinda manipulative... Like were they intending to harass him into dating??

 

[DominoSubmarine]

Ugh, I understand Kanade way too well for most of this chapter.

 

[Ceereus]

@Leomonade It's so upsetting. Bf or gf, what's the difference. The fact that they gossip about him. The fact that they created this big confrontation and put him on the spot. Like he was in the wrong or owed her anything more than a gentle rejection. She has trauma? Isn't it obvious Kanade would have trauma too?

 

[joseibitch]

If any of my friends face ANYTHING like what happens to kanade here I'd BE FURIOUS. YOU CAN'T EXPECT ANYBODY TO HOLD THEMSELVES ACCOUNTABLE FOR MAKING SOMEBODY FALL IN LOVE WITH THEM.

Look, if I were Sis Fujoshi (I don't want to remember her name, sorry) and my friend was crying over the fact that she's rejected by some guy, I'll tell her to either get on with her life cuz it ain't worth it OR STAY OUT OF IT. I don't want to bully or talk someone else into reciprocating my bff's feelings if they don't want to.

 

[joseibitch]

Aizawa, dump the other sis and try to befriend Kanade. Maybe both of you can learn about self-acceptance together.

 

[illusion_moon]

It’s nice to see that people seem to call out that woman whose name I cannot remember. Like, simple rejection should have been enough to signal that he is not interested. He shouldn’t be required to out himself just to reject her. His arguments, while a little harsh, are actually sound, at least in my opinion.

 

[notekatha]

Everytime I reread this, I get pissed off again about this chapter.

Never. Ever. Force someone to come out.

Not even if they rejected someone. Not if someone asks. Not because you think it's right.

Shouldn't the fact that you made a joke of the idea of two men "being lovey-dovey" be enough to understand why? Don't you think Kanade's probably terrified of you learning the truth when that's what you say just seeing him physically close to another man?

No. You don't get to play moral high ground. He said, "no, I don't want to be in a relationship with you." And that's fucking enough. No one needs more information, it's kinda creepy enough that despite hearing from him a rejection and that he was in a relationship,she asked to continue liking him (what, you're waiting for him to break up with his partner?)


I am still so sick of seeing "oh but you don't have to be scared' as a way to force people to come out.

 

[Ghehehe]

Damn, it made me so mad...
Even if they both didn't mean to be rude or whatever, it was none of Aizawa's friend business. The audacity to DEMAND a colleague's private life details and when they refuse, you call them selfish?!

Girl, first, no matter the gender, if someone rejected you, it's a full stop.
There's no "valid reason", they don't want what you want, stop.
That was basically harassment.

I also didn't like the writting of Aizawa as a character. From the end of the chapter it looks like she's actually a nice person and all of that, that it's only her friend who went too far... Didn't she, a big adult, send a message about how she won't give up, just after being rejected?
That's also harrassement.

It's totally fine that she has difficulties to move on but it's not the reponsability of Kanade. She didn't have, and her friend too, to let him know.

Also, thank you for the translation ~ <3