Once you go to far, you need to communicate. Like, seriously, more than half the time, the biggest problem they have is that they won't talk...
Like, when they need to speak, they won't... but when they are justified in keeping their mouth shut, they are in the wrong for keeping it a secret...
Like... wtf... why is it okay to keep things from your closest people who are involved, but wrong to keep things from uninvolved people???