Agawa: "Because you told me exactly what you think about me."
^ This is it, this is the key, this is everything. Con men and psychos make a living by lying to lonely men, telling them that they need money, looks, power and/or chad genes to get girls. This is bullshit. It only takes a bit of genuine interest in the person behind the boobs, and the courage to be honest about your feelings (tho a sense of timing, some tact and a bath wouldn't hurt).