@JonRa My whole point at the start here was that she has equal responsibility for the situation too, and that has not changed. His mother practically told her the same thing while admonishing him for mimicking porn with how he was going about things in the same scene. They
both had
something to address at the root of this issue. That was even the motivator for their plan for going forward, letting her figure it out from her end and him thinking about how he's been approaching it so far, so that they could hopefully reach a mutually beneficial understanding of things.
Her being ignorant of some things involving herself does not excuse her from having any sort of responsibility in situations that rely on that information. It also takes two to tango, but she
was not communicating with him, and he specifically says that to her on page 17 of this chapter. They were trying to figure it out again, and she still wasn't giving him any sort of feedback until she finally snapped and blurted some out. That is absolutely a shared responsibility of partners during the deed.
I'm pretty sure we're just going in circles at this point, so I'm probably not gonna reply again.