Ahh, yeah. Got it now. I wish you and your partner the best of luck, @crescentfreshh.
Does anyone actually have a childhood friend with an unrequited love relationship?
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One thing I always wondered about that's mildly off topic, are the strange and random confessions in anime. The ones where someone confesses their feelings to someone, despite never talking to them before. I mean, that can't happen in real life Japan, right? If you did that in America, you'd likely get a puzzled; or possibly creeped out look. Well, at least if the recipient was a woman that is. There are of course certain men who wouldn't be bothered by a random confession, if the woman was attractive; although, those definitely aren't the ones you want to date.
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Once, when I was in middle school, a guy that I had never saw, asked me out of nowhere ,to by his friend.
He literally said"Do you want to be my friend?"
I give him my "What the fuck are you talking about" stare and walked away.
He tried again some days later accompanied with another guy.
I say "no" with my head and walked away.
My theories are:
1/ He was an award kids who wanted to become my friend because I was the coolest Dude of the school.
2/ His sister fall under my irresistible charm like every other girl of the school and send her brother to make the first contact because she was too scared to approach me herself, because I was so smart ,sexy and cool.
3/ Gayyyyyyyyyyyyyy
He literally said"Do you want to be my friend?"
I give him my "What the fuck are you talking about" stare and walked away.
He tried again some days later accompanied with another guy.
I say "no" with my head and walked away.
My theories are:
1/ He was an award kids who wanted to become my friend because I was the coolest Dude of the school.
2/ His sister fall under my irresistible charm like every other girl of the school and send her brother to make the first contact because she was too scared to approach me herself, because I was so smart ,sexy and cool.
3/ Gayyyyyyyyyyyyyy
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I got my first confession from my childhood friend, when I was 5 y.o.
I didn’t really know what love was, or that confessions needed to be answered...
Nor did I had any idea what dating was, or a boyfriend!
Lol 😆 I didn’t even had enough memory to remember my newfound KG’s friends’ names over the summer vacation, so this was pretty normal for me.
Haha, when I did understand, I felt pretty bad tho 😅
Although at the time (of confession)I was really happy! I started writing a diary when I was 5, so the events are clear as day. But the very next day he asked me to forget all about it 😓
I was just left speechless. And my dairy was discovered by my whole family! And that too on the next day of my confession, before I wrote that day’s entry.
I was just so embarrassed! And I hadn’t even done anything (at least that’s what I thought, probably broke the poor guy’s heart by not answering, hence him taking it back 😑)
I was always in the same class as him from when we were 5 till 10 y.o. And kept meeting when we got to separate classes till around 13. By then I’ve developed a crush, but still couldn’t understand my own feelings. By the time I got to understand them a little, it was too late- we were already strangers now.
Or so I thought, then someone familiar smiled and waved at me at the premiere of last Harry Potter movie! I couldn’t recognise him then. My cousin pulled me off and I got distracted, only to remember a moment later it was HIM! I looked around for him, and couldn’t find him any longer (was 15 or 16 yo then). Such a disappointment, didn’t even greet him 😭
The there was this one time we by chance may at school, we were both with our own groups of friends, of course we couldn’t keep them waiting, but this time I greeted him, he said “hi” too. And then we stared at each other, saying nothing. Seemed like time stopped, but what a disappointment, it actually didn’t!😢
His friend called him, that broke our trance from just silently staring at each-other (yes, apparently, this doesn’t only happen in movies and stuff). He responded and then my friends called me & I bashfully ran away that time.
That was the last time our paths crossed! My life has turned upside down from then! I’m not the girl I used to be! He probably won’t even like me now, as I am 😩, but that’s if I have a chance, he probably has a girlfriend or a wife already! I have no way to really find out, and even if I do it’ll only be painful, but I sure hope he’s alive!
I didn’t really know what love was, or that confessions needed to be answered...
Nor did I had any idea what dating was, or a boyfriend!
Lol 😆 I didn’t even had enough memory to remember my newfound KG’s friends’ names over the summer vacation, so this was pretty normal for me.
Haha, when I did understand, I felt pretty bad tho 😅
Although at the time (of confession)I was really happy! I started writing a diary when I was 5, so the events are clear as day. But the very next day he asked me to forget all about it 😓
I was just left speechless. And my dairy was discovered by my whole family! And that too on the next day of my confession, before I wrote that day’s entry.
I was just so embarrassed! And I hadn’t even done anything (at least that’s what I thought, probably broke the poor guy’s heart by not answering, hence him taking it back 😑)
I was always in the same class as him from when we were 5 till 10 y.o. And kept meeting when we got to separate classes till around 13. By then I’ve developed a crush, but still couldn’t understand my own feelings. By the time I got to understand them a little, it was too late- we were already strangers now.
Or so I thought, then someone familiar smiled and waved at me at the premiere of last Harry Potter movie! I couldn’t recognise him then. My cousin pulled me off and I got distracted, only to remember a moment later it was HIM! I looked around for him, and couldn’t find him any longer (was 15 or 16 yo then). Such a disappointment, didn’t even greet him 😭
The there was this one time we by chance may at school, we were both with our own groups of friends, of course we couldn’t keep them waiting, but this time I greeted him, he said “hi” too. And then we stared at each other, saying nothing. Seemed like time stopped, but what a disappointment, it actually didn’t!😢
His friend called him, that broke our trance from just silently staring at each-other (yes, apparently, this doesn’t only happen in movies and stuff). He responded and then my friends called me & I bashfully ran away that time.
That was the last time our paths crossed! My life has turned upside down from then! I’m not the girl I used to be! He probably won’t even like me now, as I am 😩, but that’s if I have a chance, he probably has a girlfriend or a wife already! I have no way to really find out, and even if I do it’ll only be painful, but I sure hope he’s alive!
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Damn. Compraed to you guys my life is really uneventful. And i don't mind tbh
I have one childhood friend. I care about her a lot but not in a romantic way. We've known each other for almost 20 years but nothing happened. I talk to her like I would talk to any of my friends. Sometimes if I can I even try to introduce her to some of my friends.
I had a little onee x shota moment in my life. Well kinda. I was 6 or 7 and she was around 13. She would always come and greet me with joy and then hug me. Even when she was talking to her friends she would pause just for that. Made me feel special ngl. She would always said to her friends "This is insert name here ! I love that kid he's so cute!". Dunno how much she meant it but I was too shy to say anything back. I saw her like 3 or 4 years later but it looked like she didn't remember me....Funny thing is while I was sad that she didn't remember me I couldn't remembr her name. I still can't. She was pretty tho.
There was also this girl back in elementary school who would kabedon me (Yep. Not the other way around) on a regular basis during breaks. She even tried (or managed ? Can't remember) to kiss me once. I was too weak to do anything. Not physically but mentally because I wasn't sure if I wanted it or not. Now that I think about it this is a little frightening. Anyway she disappeared the year after and I never heard from her since.
Now my life revolves around hanging out with my friends who always find the time even if some of them have gfs. I'll probably start to feel lonely when they all be too busy for me. But rn I'm good
I have one childhood friend. I care about her a lot but not in a romantic way. We've known each other for almost 20 years but nothing happened. I talk to her like I would talk to any of my friends. Sometimes if I can I even try to introduce her to some of my friends.
I had a little onee x shota moment in my life. Well kinda. I was 6 or 7 and she was around 13. She would always come and greet me with joy and then hug me. Even when she was talking to her friends she would pause just for that. Made me feel special ngl. She would always said to her friends "This is insert name here ! I love that kid he's so cute!". Dunno how much she meant it but I was too shy to say anything back. I saw her like 3 or 4 years later but it looked like she didn't remember me....Funny thing is while I was sad that she didn't remember me I couldn't remembr her name. I still can't. She was pretty tho.
There was also this girl back in elementary school who would kabedon me (Yep. Not the other way around) on a regular basis during breaks. She even tried (or managed ? Can't remember) to kiss me once. I was too weak to do anything. Not physically but mentally because I wasn't sure if I wanted it or not. Now that I think about it this is a little frightening. Anyway she disappeared the year after and I never heard from her since.
Now my life revolves around hanging out with my friends who always find the time even if some of them have gfs. I'll probably start to feel lonely when they all be too busy for me. But rn I'm good
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I'll revive this thread!!
Give me your love story, damnit. And tomboy not a myth, it's either they go full feminine or FtM. And I prefer the first than other. It's all about preference.
Give me your love story, damnit. And tomboy not a myth, it's either they go full feminine or FtM. And I prefer the first than other. It's all about preference.
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no, because I don't have any love stories to tell
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JUST COME OUT OF THE CLOSET! I KNOW YOU HAVE ONE!
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no, I'm being serious
I never thought about love when I was a child, and never thought of love when I was a teen as well
when I became a full-fledged adult, I briefly thought about love, but those thoughts got buried by other events happening in my life
even if I met a girl way back when, I barely even remember her face nor her name, let alone how I felt about her
I didn't care about love back then, and I don't care about it now
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What @Nyanyan444 wants to read is some NTR stories with gremlins as protagonists while practising necromancy.
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Go ahead, if you scroll the first two pages of comments you'll find some lengthy posts about it.
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Take your time my friend, I'll make some popcorn in the meantime and search for a good bgm.
It won’t be accurate since it a long time ago so I’ll try my best to remember parts of the story I’ll be telling also it hurts allot now that think about it anyway enjoy or not. This good for me to express my feelings.
So a long time ago I used to live in an old apartment when I was a child around I think 5 to 7 years old me there was this neighbor who are friends with my sister or could say childhood friends. They are sisters to youngest to oldest my neighbor but to me the one who stood out for me is the oldest sister if I remember correctly we’re the same age. She half Japanese and Filipino at that time I was diagnosed with ADHD so my feelings for her was so could, what’s the best word for it lost because I was quiet kid back in my day and afterwards I started to feel something in my birthday or something else like I said is a long time ago. She was there and started talking about random and happened me felt was that kiss in the cheek to this feeling I felt was so could happy and joyful about it good times. And I realize that I have crushed on her or fell in love.
But the thing is that ADHD cause me to move to new house or home because wasn’t doing great in school, so my parents make me switch school and of course I still have time to stay in my old apartment or home.
It pains me to say I move to a new home, and never seen her ever since.
You know what’s funny it took me a long time to realize that I have a crush on her or I fell love because of her and you know what she is the reason that I improved my mental state and reason to go on because I wasn’t good in academic, now I’m fine.
You know what’s scared me the most is that I, I’m scared to see her with someone besides her or having a boyfriend I, I’m fine seeing her or talking to her is just that I’m scared to see her with someone. Remember this is a long time ago you know time fast, you know what’s wish my wish is to see her and express my feelings to her before I move that will be enough for me.
Right now I’m doing okay but the memories and feelings won’t go away just like a scar, wounds will heal but scars won’t. Love makes someone improve themselves wheather that be physically or mentally.
I hope this can revive the thread and yes I tried contacting her in social media but I’m just scared to see her with someone or mentioning it.
(Please forgive me for my grammar and words and right now I need a good joke to make laugh. But if your mad of the story it’s okay I get it is just that I need let loose of that feelings I have)
(But seriously I need advice and a good joke)
So a long time ago I used to live in an old apartment when I was a child around I think 5 to 7 years old me there was this neighbor who are friends with my sister or could say childhood friends. They are sisters to youngest to oldest my neighbor but to me the one who stood out for me is the oldest sister if I remember correctly we’re the same age. She half Japanese and Filipino at that time I was diagnosed with ADHD so my feelings for her was so could, what’s the best word for it lost because I was quiet kid back in my day and afterwards I started to feel something in my birthday or something else like I said is a long time ago. She was there and started talking about random and happened me felt was that kiss in the cheek to this feeling I felt was so could happy and joyful about it good times. And I realize that I have crushed on her or fell in love.
But the thing is that ADHD cause me to move to new house or home because wasn’t doing great in school, so my parents make me switch school and of course I still have time to stay in my old apartment or home.
It pains me to say I move to a new home, and never seen her ever since.
You know what’s funny it took me a long time to realize that I have a crush on her or I fell love because of her and you know what she is the reason that I improved my mental state and reason to go on because I wasn’t good in academic, now I’m fine.
You know what’s scared me the most is that I, I’m scared to see her with someone besides her or having a boyfriend I, I’m fine seeing her or talking to her is just that I’m scared to see her with someone. Remember this is a long time ago you know time fast, you know what’s wish my wish is to see her and express my feelings to her before I move that will be enough for me.
Right now I’m doing okay but the memories and feelings won’t go away just like a scar, wounds will heal but scars won’t. Love makes someone improve themselves wheather that be physically or mentally.
I hope this can revive the thread and yes I tried contacting her in social media but I’m just scared to see her with someone or mentioning it.
(Please forgive me for my grammar and words and right now I need a good joke to make laugh. But if your mad of the story it’s okay I get it is just that I need let loose of that feelings I have)
(But seriously I need advice and a good joke)
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Run after her dude! You can do it. Said what you should say. Pur all your heart. Start casual like you want to reconnect for old time but stillcheck if she has partner. I know you can do it.
And please tell me more after that👍
And please tell me more after that👍
Thank you I’ll try I hope this can revive the thread
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