@farranpoison I don't think so. The female elves were traumatized because they were raped by humans. It doesn't make sense for them to love those humans.
@miyako19
They did hate and distrust these humans at first. I think the point here is that they slowly changed their opinion on them while maintaining their tsun attitude.
I doubt any "tsun" or "dere" is involved, if anything they're worried about being abandoned or mistreated again. The women of a losing side have often suffered enormously.