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I understand if it is while they are still student and teacher. There are many reasons for why this is an issue. Things like preferential treatment, overcompensating for it with higher expectations and harsher punishments, potential for cheating is higher, potential age differences being high could seem pedophile-ish and not genuine, etc. Many schools will directly try and prevent this.
One of my friends began teaching at a high-school when he was about 22-23. My friend was fairly good looking, being a former swimmer and all, so a few of his female students tried to date him (they were around 16-17 years old). He obviously declined, but the school still moved him to their elementary student classes (2nd grade or so) almost immediately to prevent it.
Once the student graduates though, give it a year (so they are 18 years old), then do whatever the fuck you want. There is no longer any excuse that can be used to prevent it by the school, and actually they benefit from it to an extent. For 1, you dating a former student means your current students have 0 chance to enter a relationship with you, or be influenced by your bias towards them from them being a potential partner. 2, both are at least or over 18, so anything sexual you do with each other is legal (as long as both consent). So may claim the relationship began while they were still your student (which may not be entirely incorrect), but that 1 year gap post graduation adds enough doubt to counter it for the most part, so most wont question that part too much.
Buy yeah, do what you want as long as both are good with it, and you are not current student and teacher (or try to, but take a lot of precautions).
I understand if it is while they are still student and teacher. There are many reasons for why this is an issue. Things like preferential treatment, overcompensating for it with higher expectations and harsher punishments, potential for cheating is higher, potential age differences being high could seem pedophile-ish and not genuine, etc. Many schools will directly try and prevent this.
One of my friends began teaching at a high-school when he was about 22-23. My friend was fairly good looking, being a former swimmer and all, so a few of his female students tried to date him (they were around 16-17 years old). He obviously declined, but the school still moved him to their elementary student classes (2nd grade or so) almost immediately to prevent it.
Once the student graduates though, give it a year (so they are 18 years old), then do whatever the fuck you want. There is no longer any excuse that can be used to prevent it by the school, and actually they benefit from it to an extent. For 1, you dating a former student means your current students have 0 chance to enter a relationship with you, or be influenced by your bias towards them from them being a potential partner. 2, both are at least or over 18, so anything sexual you do with each other is legal (as long as both consent). So may claim the relationship began while they were still your student (which may not be entirely incorrect), but that 1 year gap post graduation adds enough doubt to counter it for the most part, so most wont question that part too much.
Buy yeah, do what you want as long as both are good with it, and you are not current student and teacher (or try to, but take a lot of precautions).
