Dex-chan lover
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- Jul 5, 2020
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Read that post carefully, it implies guy should marry not the ex lover single mother, but her daughter (especially the "tells her daughter and him wake up you two" part). With single mother maybe joining in on the fun (oyakodon references). In this case it doesn't matter who was the father .I mean it's pretty normal to not reconnect with an ex lover after 17 years who also has kids. Single mothers do statistically get approached way less than just single women by men because men just naturally don't want to take responsibility for another man's child especially childless men, I'm sure it's easier for single fathers. Society hasn't degrated because this was never seen as normal. It's up to the individual if they can get over the hurdle of the instincts of not wanting to deal with a child that isn't your own product, this also doesn't mention the child too who also has to make an effort to connect with the new father figure which also statistically is a way lower chance than a biological child.
But even then the guy being interested in reconnecting not asking question about the kid just makes him look like a complete loser. I'm pretty sure most step-fathers want to be aware of the history of their step child because it makes it easier to connect with them.