Despite what everyone is saying, Im actually kinda happy its like this. She's given up on her father's attention, and is trying to branch out more. Im glad she isn't swallowed up in hatred, and is actually trying to enjoy herself. Even though she has way more to learn. If she were to become scheming and cold, she essentially would still be all alone. Honestly the personality switches in other novels where everyone betrays her are kinda unrealistic. No matter the traumatic experience. You can't become scheming and charismatic overnight bruh.