That Winstead emoji! I don't use discord but it makes me want to make an account just to use the emoji lol
On are serious note, the guy is garbage. I've always believed that being oblivious and acting like a prejudiced twat is the most frustrating shit. When I read those stupid stories where the ML hates the MC in the beginning because his girlfriend or sister or whatever feeds him bunch of bullshit and he rolls with it, it is so frustrating (I know that's not the case here but it's the same personality as those MLs except he is no ML thankfully).
Honestly, 0 sympathy for him. 10 fucking years dude!!! Also, everyone else noticed how she is being treated except for him. That is how little he thought of her. If he truly looked at her he would have noticed the few dresses she has, where she was staying...he didn't bother. It's not like she was hidden, she was living under his roof and yes, he was at war but he came back every now and then (as shown through flashbacks ). He made it his life mission to reject her in the most hurtful ways. He does not get to pine after her, he can only wallow in regret and leave her be.
I'm just worried about her right now. I font think the ML's family and entourage will be very welcoming either. I mean yes he is q great character so far and won't turn a blind eye to it but it's just sad that she will continue to be put down even for while. I wish she married someone normal that she can be with and eventually love without any stigma or expectations. But of course I understand her choice because she wouldn't be able to break free from all the ties binding her unless she marries someone powerful and moves away