The portrayal of someone who stans in this story actually has some interesting things to say. She says specifically that she "loves without expecting to be loved back", which you could really apply to being a stan of anything. You know, going in, that you'll probably never get the attention of the thing that you love, it's a one sided relationship. And her family relationship was that way too. She could love her parents, but she knew they would never love her back. It's the sort of unhealthy mindset that is a clear side effect of abuse, and she doesn't seem to even realize it herself. Great writing.