The problem is when you tie specific aesthetic choices to specific identity you bring back gender norms and gender limitation. I think that what makes Sky so annoyed is because he clearly enjoys Otokonoko, and in present days it's common for people to say that they're girls and deny the masculinity and gender play of the characters. After saying so many people go and say "Otokonoko is just trans girls made by cowards" you get a little wary and annoyed.
(I do find it funny that those discussions came to exist in mangadex though, as through that this site was separated from that context of talks)
Eeeeh, they’re really nasty and rude. Actively transphobic (a trans woman coming out and the word trans being used and just “RAAAAAAAAGH”).
Are you saying you think transphobia is cool if it’s polite?
Did you ACTIVELY ignore all the shit I said about how Japanese and pronouns and “Opera” as a persona being about passing as a woman while in character? Well, go read it again and again.
Yeah, translation is best done with the audience in mind, but two of these characters are trying to pass as women. Characters of their own creation, but women. Why not use “she” to refer to “Cocoa” and “he” for “Satoshi”?
This isn’t Ikemen Joshi to Josou Danshi. In that, Iori uses mansculine speech patterns and pronoun regardless of how he’s presenting at a given moment. Someone using “she” there would offend me on multiple levels. Just thinking about it is pissing me off.
Another layer: “Cocoa”/Satoshi isn’t ready to funny accept all kind of stuff. That makes things all the more confusing.
“Opera” (rn escapes me) has his own stuff that would be spoilers.
There’s no reason to be upset about any pronouns. There’s none that could be used that I’d be totally happy with, because it’s not possible.
I think “they” is the most confusing option, and I’m glad it’s not used, but I’m not translating this FOR FREE. If there’s no good option, why not have fun switching them around whenever?
How many times do they say “I’m/we’re a man/men”? Many.
Hell, pronouns aren’t gender.
Men can use “she” if they want, women can use “they” on and on. Any combination with any given gender or pronouns or whatever.
ALSO.
Why are you talking about Bridget? Bridget isn’t relevant.
Bridget is a girl. If you don’t like it, then pretend she’s not, and stop talking about it.
There are TONS of things that I don’t accept in later iterations of media. I don’t really like that “Alien” got sequels, but it did.
I don’t go around saying that the later movies or extended media don’t exist.
“Some people think femboys should be trans” well, fuck them. That’s a terrible thing to say, I’ve seen it said, it sucks.
That’s not what’s happening
here.
Stop complaining about things that aren’t happening.