Lmao, can't even bother to do basic due diligence aye?
Need to go "ha incel" to avoid the hard truth.
It isn't that she "had sex" it's how and with whom.
And no "pair-bonding" isn't with many, it's with ANY. It starts diminishing after one partner, this is a fact. It's just that it's exponential. i.e. it climbs FAST, that "large number" is around 3-5... sooooo yeah. (you can argue all you want, but statistics don't lie).
Also you can't compare SA victims, to someone being the perpetrator... Very different psychological impacts. (one had no control, the other was in control)
And they don't have "Normal" relationships, they have close to normal relationships, because no matter what, they have scars, scars they can learn to cope with, but ones they can't ever truly move on from.
Don't confuse the two. Normal would be not having the memories of such an event at all. But that's not the case now is it?
Now imagine for perpetrators... who weren't really punished at all.. and then they get a new victim... your "more than their past" point is for those who have actually changed themselves and improved... she literally just went "well shit, I can't get him anymore, I'll move to this guy" zero remorse... she's sad that she failed, not sad that she did it.
Since it seems it needs to be said, cause you lowered yourself to throw around incel to be cool and get your "own" in, zero value as a wife doesn't mean they don't have value as a human being.
But hey, if you wanna marry someone like that (the sister), go ahead. Some people have to learn reality the hard way.