@musicfreak12 "btw the MC is not that sheltered in the manga, and actually actively seeking sex " Never said he was, the one who is sheltered is his partner, the girl from the rich family, I though I said that pretty clearly though.
That scene makes 0 sense, and even the aftermath with him thinking he was abandoned was also bad, because her entire dialogue before the whole scene meant the exact opposite, he lived more than 10 years in his new life, and had a very happy childhood, that's more than enough time for his lack of self esteem to disappear, which is what makes that development hard to swallow.
As for the "Rudeus in university", that was the arc that made me drop the series, I forgave the problem I just described above, but this one simply insulted my intelligence far too much. Like I said everything but romance was pretty well written, however the romance aspects are so trash tier that I simply couldn't proceed further. And that arc was pretty much just a romance arc.
As of Overlord yes it's a bit overrated too. Yasei no Last Boss ga Arawareta is a much better story by comparison, even though the MC is not a villain like Ainz is slowly becoming.