We need to change names into in before that guy diesMy otaku senses are warning me of a "harem" and "tsundere male" tags. But seriously this unfortunately is a formulaic development which not every author can pull off. Gotta bite the bullet and keep reading just in case.
No, please don't jump in front of the angry mob like that. You might have to change your username to ItsThatDeadGuy
What are you smoking? If I can project to him, I'd love the series and would be able to totally relate to his decisions. No, I cannot even see myself in him. I don't even know how you can craft that argument.I'm pretty sure every man who hate the mc hate him because they see themselves in him and don't want to admit it
Yes, trauma isn't easy to avoid. People don't have issue with the boy being intimidated when the boy sees the girl who once 'uses' him or toys with him. That's not where people start to become pessimistic.-Even though he achieved what he wants, there is still a scar left that scare him, which is accurate as fuck, trauma is not easy to forget.
You can argue that, and we can try establishing that as the basis for the sake of argument. The way he interacts with her is absolutely bonker.-He won't know that the girl likes him just because she acts friendly with him because SHE fucking asked him on how to be friendly with people and asked him to help her practise.
I find it funny how the gal just acts as though they’re closer than friends despite her claiming she has terrible communication skills. lol
It's interesting you say that women are a mystery and yet you find yourself relating to the mangaka, who is a woman.I find it funny how the gal just acts as though they’re closer than friends despite her claiming she has terrible communication skills. lol
Though to the mangaka’s credit I’ve found myself in a very similar situation before. Can’t really tell her no. Women are a mystery. Whether she’s flirting with you or not, you could certainly get used to it…..
If more women were like this AND especially if more men were more receptive to taking it somewhere, perhaps people wouldn’t be so crazy and lonely.
Let me be clear with what I’m saying: I am not relating to the mangaka. I am giving her credit. I also would like to point out that I have/had little real question over whether I was being flirted with because in the end it did not matter.It's interesting you say that women are a mystery and yet you find yourself relating to the mangaka, who is a woman.
There isn't any mystery here: people often see themselves very differently from how other people see them. That applies both to the female character, who underestimates her communication skills, and to you, who will overestimate how a woman is interacting with you, because you are physically attracted to her.
One way to circumvent this is to pay attention to how you perceive people that you aren't attracted to when they talk to you, and use that as reference. At least it worked with me, I quickly realized the flirting was all in my head... most of the time.
That's an extremely limited way to see interactions with women. It almost sounds like you are talking about a wild animal you need to tame, not fellow human beings. If this is the only way you interact with women, it's no wonder you think they are a mystery.Guys are the ones to initiate flirting, mainly as a way to invite affection and attachment while dancing around uncomfortable questions and sudden moves that would scare a woman off. Gives her time to consider and accept or push you away before becoming too serious or attached.
Agreed.Keisuke's now has more motivation to change his social perception, but it seems Kusunoki isn't helping with that, because she really wants to have friends. So the top girl hounding on to him won't let him be the middle kind of guy. But he promised to help her, so now he's in a big dilemma.
Personally, all he's doing is gonna make people think they're already together, but he's just too shy to admit it.
Might I be allowed to shift that person's assertion just a bit? Two groups of people are hating on the hero: people that are like him, and people that are like Hebikawa.What are you smoking? If I can project to him, I'd love the series and would be able to totally relate to his decisions. No, I cannot even see myself in him. I don't even know how you can craft that argument.
Yes, trauma isn't easy to avoid. People don't have issue with the boy being intimidated when the boy sees the girl who once 'uses' him or toys with him. That's not where people start to become pessimistic.
You can argue that, and we can try establishing that as the basis for the sake of argument. The way he interacts with her is absolutely bonker.
First, he wants to improve. In fact, he's been doing that for months before he starts his high school debut. At this point, his self-esteem, while may still be easily swayed from trauma (e.g. meeting with former bullies), should be relatively adequate or normal compared to most people when interacting with just normal people.
Second, he knows exactly who this girl is for probably years. If he can be friend with a complete stranger when he enrolls in this high school (he has friends now), then it does not make sense if he is this terrified befriending someone like her.
Third, if you want to make an argument that he does not want her to turn against him once she's properly established, then that is fine. However, if that is his true intention (and not just some 'excuse' he prepares to justify himself), then he can easily either reject or maintain 'acquaintance' stance while being firm. We don't mind if the MC is being careful against women in his class specifically because he is still in trauma. But, his action right now feels silly at best, and can be considered generic at worst. Something easily predictable (the other dude probably forecasted the next 30 chapters content if there's ever gonna be that many). Just a copy paste with different artstyle and character names.
Most of the people who complain aren't asking for the MC to suddenly turn into giga chad or a very alpha male. If the author wants to make a reasonably normal standard high schooler boy, make it normal. This kind of 'denseness' is abnormal. It's basically just a trope. A more normal approach would be to have MC be at least on a neutral stance, if not slightly happy, as he gets a friend.
I hate him because he's kinda sexist, and extremely dumb. People whispering about you and causing you anguish over misunderstandings is such a stupid way to create drama. He has all the tools to live a peaceful life, he's just too frustratingly focused on imaginary social constructs to see it.I'm pretty sure every man who hate the mc hate him because they see themselves in him and don't want to admit it. Like:
-He tried his best to change himself.
-Even though he achieved what he wants, there is still a scar left that scare him, which is accurate as fuck, trauma is not easy to forget.
-He won't know that the girl likes him just because she acts friendly with him because SHE fucking asked him on how to be friendly with people and asked him to help her practise. (Even I don't know if the girl like him or not, like, someone tell you that they want you to help them practise being friendly with people and they start being friendly with you, if you then assume that they're being friendly with you because they like you, how down bad are you?)
This is all I can say because there're only 2 chapters rn, but I won't stand for it if someone hate on him for some bullshit excuses.
That's what I don't get about this mangaka. She's making a manga that is supposedly shoujo, but she manages to cram in these harmful stereotypes typical from a shounen.I hate him because he's kinda sexist, and extremely dumb. People whispering about you and causing you anguish over misunderstandings is such a stupid way to create drama. He has all the tools to live a peaceful life, he's just too frustratingly focused on imaginary social constructs to see it.
On the bright side maybe it’ll finish fast?Geez author you could have waited at least a few more chaps of development for the main couple before throwing dumb drama so early.
They barely even know each other yet and already they are throwing drama tropes that usually appear dozens of chaps into the story.