this reads like a classic reddit post on
r/relationships
Me (27F) and my boyfriend (27M) have been together since senior year of highschool, but we barely have sex anymore. I've tried so hard to get his attention, but he claims he is a 'herbivore' and very rarely feels in the mood for sex anymore. I've been with this man for 10 years, he's my best friend and my soulmate. What should I do, Reddit?
Then everyone in the comments tells her to break up with him.