I can totally understand the husband if that was a pattern. She is married to her work, she can't be in a healthy relationship like that. It's her fault imoIs that a serious implication she blew off their wedding anniversary to have dinner with coworkers?
It's not that he wanted her as a house wife, it's that she was burnt out on her previous job, and "get married and run the house" felt like a convenient out for herI don’t know if it was a slight mistranslation, but the husbands reasoning felt valid, asking that they have dinner together most nights and that they spend intimate time together are pretty reasonable discussions to be had in a marriage, and while saying she should take time off work if they have a kid can be a sticking point in a relationship, that is in no way saying she should be a housewife. If this was the originally intent of the text, then she is just bullshitting when she says her husband wanted her to be a housewife.
One thing I haven't seen mentioned is that her ex supported her when she was burned out and when she went back to work. But she didn't return the favour when he was having trouble at work and wanted to recharge by having quality time together. She even admits it.Not "blew off" if I have to say, more likely that she's forget, he want to do something special, has place reserved, etc. etc.
But yeah, I would be hella pissed too if my -not even a decade- marriage partner forgot about OUR special day. But not to the point of thinking of divorce.I'll just tell her that yesterday is our wedding anniversary and that I already got a place reserved and didn't talk to her for a week after telling her that to gaslight her :v