There's a totally valid number of people calling Keroli toxic.
Thing is, I don't think Gyari would be that upset. It's the sort of thing to be expected in demon society.
They're generally wired a bit different to us. They teach torture in school. Orbas' use of "Trauma" being allowed and not considered "direct attack" absolutely pissed someone I knew off. It took like half an hour of "because those are the rules. Sports" and finally saying "They're generally not that easily traumatized. They recover quickly enough that they teach torture in school, hands-on" before we could watch the next episode.
Cultures be different.
Chutzpah is a Yiddish word. It is used exactly the same in Jewish and Goyish contexts, but we see it as a failing, not a virtue.