Meguro-san wa Hajimete ja Nai - Ch. 74 - Helped me find the answers together

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I knew she was kinda dumb but... Holy shit.
That dude fucked her up so bad in so many ways with what he did it's shocking the author doesnt realize what traumatic horrific shit they wrote and is passing off as normal.
That's the main issue with Meguro since the start. Even in previous chapters where she remembers the asshole and tells the story to her friends, she doesn't see anything wrong with any of it. Dude took a middleschooler to love hotels, made her watch porn and a lot of other fucked up shit which made her in to this emotionally crippled mess of a teenager but she (and apperantly also author) thinks it helped her? somehow and she says she still loves him.

I'm pretty sure at this point that Meguro is at high end of the spectrum and MC is not so far behind. Which makes what asshole did even more horrendous.
 
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Holy shit yes. Is this the author's way of coping after being groomed and sexually abused in a similar way?

Its fucking disgusting how its handled in this manga. None of that woke bullshit where people loose their shit cause "omg sexy loli character is literal cp" but this is unironically one of the most deranged portrayals of this topic ive ever seen.

Meguro spent years acting as a cum rag because thats what her first love, an authority figure, basically taught her was the correct thing to do at a vulnerable age. To the point she feels she isnt worthy of genuine love from the first guy that doesnt try to fuck her.

There's good reason people under 18 cannot consent. If anything this manga makes me think the age of consent should be raised.
Tbh, there is some things I agree with but some stuff you type goes a bit far. I lost all respect for the author, but I would rather not insult or make harsh accusations. Same with others making this about her being a woman or anything else, I don't really care.
Fact is, the author is uninformed and ignorant. As for my take:

The author's gross negligence in this case really is dangerous. It certainly is more hurtful than anything else.
Imagine a young adult woman that was in a similar situation reading this work, IRL mind you, that did not react like Meguro did (simply forgiving the perpetrator and even telling herself that she can love her abuser for what he did and meet him with a smile).

That is how unusually wild the author's views and writing are. This can be a real problem. This can hurt/impact real people reading this work of fiction.
Just my humble two cents on the author not doing ANY real research when feeling the need to put out this content. Get a specialist or editor involved instead of lazily disregarding everything you chose to establish and ending on this pseudo-philosophical embarrassment. Literally, get help.

I for one can only say, after having thought about this chapter once more, that I am unironically and genuinely happy for the author having a relatively tiny social media following and presence. They clearly have some questionable takes and skewed views on some heavy topics, I would rather recommend them not to publicly comment on anything, at all.

This chapter and the whole Sensei situation showed what THE AUTHOR PERSONALLY thinks a teen girl reacting to meeting her groomer and sexual expoliter (Meguro factually knows) would look like. And it is plain disgusting.
Again, this most probably confirmably stems from the author simply knowing nothing about the inner workings of victims and the overall mental state of humans in these situations, as with most people that don't personally know anyone that experienced something like that and that is okay.
But the author made the conscious decision to include and play out Meguro and Sensei involving themes like that. Failing to deliver and terrible writing are solely on them (author). That is why I called it gross negligence and ignorance.
 
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This really was the make or break chapter for this manga and the author fumbled it so bad...the current boyfriend sets her up to tutor 1-on-1 with the tutor who previously took advantage of her and she has/had feelings for? What????????? At this point I hope the dude does get cucked.
 
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...Is the main character mentally deficient? Or is the writer mentally deficient? Or both?
 
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You know a chapter is complete shit when there is over 100 comments. Jfc, I need the disgusting X users to rage at the mangaka so they fucking learn that they're complete shit at writing. What is this shit development? :facepalm::facepalm::facepalm:
 
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Actually made me laugh. Koga as a character isn't exactly privy to certain information...but the author and us readers are.

So to hear him refer to that guy as "the perfect teacher for her" is just
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Is Koga going to thank him for what he did years ago once he learns since it allowed him to meet & date Meguro? Because at this point I wouldn't even put it past the writing lol
 
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I am ready for this comment section to be crowded with many people if he will still accepting facts about their past but damn, this is different and every comment that feeling appalled with how stupid koga was, is justified and fucking hell fam, he is a stupid one
 
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The fuck just happened ?

Did he just develop a Cuck-Fetish, when they were speaking ???? o_ö

Why would he suddenly ask her first love (maybe f buddy) to tutor her 1 on 1 out of nowhere, instead of doing it himself, or just asking someone unrelated, weirdest development that could've happened not gonna lie.

Being okay with her past is one thing, but that goes beyond believability, unless you do YouTube and are called "Sneako" and enjoy drama 😐
"Why did my dick get hard when I watched them talking?"
 
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It ends with a resounding plonk. The exhausting amount of feelings analysis, then this dumb crap. Empathy successfully evaporated.
 
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i mean, he's not a danger or anything, but god damn these people are crazy
 
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I'll admit I basically used to hate watch this series since the beginning until I couldn't handle it anymore and drop it (after the friend and her boyfriend story). Now after such a long time I come back and skip to the last chapter and realize....I made the right choice back then.
 

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