Meguro-san wa Hajimete ja Nai
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she's basically a slut. bitch belongs to the streets.
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its not bcoz shes not virgin but bcoz she did it even though she didnt like those guys and that too with many
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come on its not that she had multiple sex but with ppl she didnt like and she is not ignorant or naive turning a blind eye is different many of my female friends are naiive and ignorant to the point they think talking abt sex is weird but and they dont have sex with whoever asks them, girl in this manga became numb to those things thats it
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Friend, I'm assuming you're either 'young and dumb' or just lack critical thinking skills if what you've taken away from this is that this girl is being willfully ignorant and turning a blind eye to how she's been treated in her previous relationships.
She has obviously been conditioned to believe that this is just how relationships work, which heavily implies a naturally naive/innocent/pure nature in her, despite her own 'purity' having been long lost.
Might be a good idea to improve your critical thinking and reading skills if you can't see that. Same for anyone who agrees with you.
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its alright i didnt read the manga before i said this, now that i have read it i know what you mean and the reason i commented even though i didnt read is cause i dont wanna read those ntr shits( thats everywhere in japan dont know why ) and wanna avoid so i checked out comments though i still think its her fault(maybe not as much as fault but she dug her own pit or smthng) for being pure or naiive as that only happens if you dont think critically but seriosly though she is a good charecter and i hate those guys who used her just for sexual reasons and i fell bad for saying she didnt feel anything
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She's an idiot at this point.
Honestly if she's that emotionally withdrawn and conditioned that she just sleeps with anyone who asks nicely...that's honestly worse than being slutty. That's like... profoundly broken.
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in my opinion it just like reading an biography story of AV actres...
tbh hentai story is better than this
tbh hentai story is better than this
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Uhhh, may be read the fucking manga again instead of speedreading? Her past is basically a known thing in the school, is literally used to build up the plot of how Koga changed her worldview, taught her to value herself and gave her his true love instead of being just another guy who play with her
You expect weebs who've never had functional relationship with women to get this manga?
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It's literally what this manga is about. She was broken before she met Koga, and he was the one who helped her to realize her true feelings and brighten her worldview.
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Either that or she's gonna cuck him in a gangbang because that's how much of a slut she is.
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This comments section making me want to scream so much, i know every person has different belief, faith, experience, stand point, and trauma, so at least please be mindful with your choice of words when mentioning someone.
I'm currently only read up to chapter 10 and decided to hold for now, and after looking this thread it seems my choice isn't wrong, because i don't really like these type of story, and prefer more fluffy story.
Also I'm gonna put my opinion about these type of tropes or these type of relationship and people who revolves around it.
For starter i don't hate woman who isn't virgin, maybe they have a difficult circumstances going on before, it can be from divorce, one night stand, a bad relationship, bland relationship, rapes, or even when she accidentally rip her hymen, so if you hear a bad rumors about her you still have to know her more so you can judge about who she is as a person, but just beware off the red flag, and for me I will avoid girl with a lot of body count and a girl who sell her body for money.
And as a person who have a connection with a people that actually do something bad with their youth i can at least know what the aftermath of their wrong choice.
My opinion regarding these type of relationship on neutral views without involving religion stand point is this,
1. A girl that has a lot of body count because she don't have a good judge of people characters and ended up with getting used like a toy is rather pitiful, maybe they have a slight issue with their value of love or lacking of self realization, or they have a huge issue with her family and lacking parental teachings, for someone like this i hope they can find their right partner and can be happy.
2. A girl who not a virgin because of bad boy, i find this type is really pitiful, they have all of my support, a girl shouldn't be a man's toy, if the man/boys doesn't even love the girl and only see he for body then the man/boy is the trash.
3. A girl who sell her body because of money, I'll avoid this type at all costs and rather not get involved and it same for a man who buy woman for pleasure with money, I'll avoid this type in any relationship.
4. A girl who get raped, as you already know they're victims of a human trash, so they should be respected and get protected until they find their long life partner.
5. A girl who accidentally got their hymen torn, i put this here as an example because i know there's someone who get into an incident that involving self masturbation or even without their realization it got torn, my opinion regarding this matter is their situation is very unfortunate.
The conclusion is you HAVE to JUDGE someone after you know their circumstances and personality, so don't judge by the cover.
But if I'm involving my religion religious law, it's better to marry a person and then do intimate stuff later, so you can avoid some mistake, and not regretting it later, and you don't have to really find a virgin partner to be able to have a happy relationship, it just a matter of how you accept each other flaws.
And for last i want to tell you guys, you can't make a fun of whore or other unfortunate girl out there, they have their own circumstances that lead it to that situation, or rather you should make yourself a better man so there will be less unfortunate girl, because what make them like that is either a bad man or a bad parents.
I'm currently only read up to chapter 10 and decided to hold for now, and after looking this thread it seems my choice isn't wrong, because i don't really like these type of story, and prefer more fluffy story.
Also I'm gonna put my opinion about these type of tropes or these type of relationship and people who revolves around it.
For starter i don't hate woman who isn't virgin, maybe they have a difficult circumstances going on before, it can be from divorce, one night stand, a bad relationship, bland relationship, rapes, or even when she accidentally rip her hymen, so if you hear a bad rumors about her you still have to know her more so you can judge about who she is as a person, but just beware off the red flag, and for me I will avoid girl with a lot of body count and a girl who sell her body for money.
And as a person who have a connection with a people that actually do something bad with their youth i can at least know what the aftermath of their wrong choice.
My opinion regarding these type of relationship on neutral views without involving religion stand point is this,
1. A girl that has a lot of body count because she don't have a good judge of people characters and ended up with getting used like a toy is rather pitiful, maybe they have a slight issue with their value of love or lacking of self realization, or they have a huge issue with her family and lacking parental teachings, for someone like this i hope they can find their right partner and can be happy.
2. A girl who not a virgin because of bad boy, i find this type is really pitiful, they have all of my support, a girl shouldn't be a man's toy, if the man/boys doesn't even love the girl and only see he for body then the man/boy is the trash.
3. A girl who sell her body because of money, I'll avoid this type at all costs and rather not get involved and it same for a man who buy woman for pleasure with money, I'll avoid this type in any relationship.
4. A girl who get raped, as you already know they're victims of a human trash, so they should be respected and get protected until they find their long life partner.
5. A girl who accidentally got their hymen torn, i put this here as an example because i know there's someone who get into an incident that involving self masturbation or even without their realization it got torn, my opinion regarding this matter is their situation is very unfortunate.
The conclusion is you HAVE to JUDGE someone after you know their circumstances and personality, so don't judge by the cover.
But if I'm involving my religion religious law, it's better to marry a person and then do intimate stuff later, so you can avoid some mistake, and not regretting it later, and you don't have to really find a virgin partner to be able to have a happy relationship, it just a matter of how you accept each other flaws.
And for last i want to tell you guys, you can't make a fun of whore or other unfortunate girl out there, they have their own circumstances that lead it to that situation, or rather you should make yourself a better man so there will be less unfortunate girl, because what make them like that is either a bad man or a bad parents.
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She needs therapy at this point. But no, this manga isn't gonna do that because reasons.
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Similar manga to this Our Love Story: The Experienced You and the Inexperienced Me
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TLDR: It is a really sweet series about two people who struggle with relationships slowly learning how to love each other and be confident in and with themselves. The story also follows a lot of "different" types of relationships and people and the struggles that come with. Good series, worth a read.
Hey ya'll, just caught up to the series(72 at the time of writing) in a single sitting, and not gonna lie, I have no idea what this comment section is. I swear to god the people yelling about her being a slut(kinda but not really) or trying to claim this is some ntr shit haven't read the series. That or they read the first couple chapters and then stopped. I will say that this series is, for the most part, incredibly wholesome. It is literally about a broken girl and awkward guy learning to not only go after what they want, but also learning how to love. Did the FMC make mistakes in the past, yeah, but the story also very clearly shows that she was kinda manipulated into thinking what she was doing was normal by the first person she was with. There are moments during these flashback scenes where you can see that she isn't necessarily the most comfortable or complete agree with this guys ideas, but goes along with them because she "loves" him, and even that "love" is very skewed. The main character then comes in and slowly teaches her that these ideas aren't necessarily true and that, basically, her view of love/relationships had been incredibly warped. I will also say that the story very rarely focuses directly on her backstory, and it's used more as flavor text than anything else. Literally the majority of chapters are just the two of them in a lovey-dovey relationship to the point where I could describe it as being sickeningly wholesome.
Now with all that said, the series, in my eyes, gets kinda tainted when they start bringing in some of the side characters in later chapters(~50+). The story during these sections becomes far less about the two MCs and more about the other side characters and their, frankly, damaged personalities and relationships. The one I personally hate the most is the FMCs best friend. It was an incredibly difficult set of chapters to read and made me really not like her as a person and feel really bad for the guy she is with. The weirdest part is that at around this time the series really focuses on this idea of these people being incapable of feeling/understanding love. Like, literally 4 out of 5 of these side characters have a variation of this very problem. Hell you could even say the FMC had this as well until the MC came along. The only thing is that I feel like the author doesn't fully believe this and is setting these characters up to eventually fall in love/find healthy relationships, much like the FMC, but it's too early to know. Regardless, if you're anything like me, just know that the later chapters are probably going to upset you to a certain degree. I will state though that these arcs have mostly lukewarm/bittersweet endings and never truly end on a depressing note; but they are none the less upsetting.
Another thing is these latest couple chapters have me a bit spooked. I get the feeling they are setting stuff up for some kind of misunderstanding or old feelings temporarily resurfacing to occur. I wouldn't call it anything ntr related, but definitely giving me uh-oh kinda vibes. I don't think this will be the case given everything in the story thus far, but the shit being setup is definitely being done to create potential conflict between the MC and FMC. I hope I am wrong and it doesn't; and we just get more wholesome shit, because I definitely feel that this is where both the author and the series excel in.
Hey ya'll, just caught up to the series(72 at the time of writing) in a single sitting, and not gonna lie, I have no idea what this comment section is. I swear to god the people yelling about her being a slut(kinda but not really) or trying to claim this is some ntr shit haven't read the series. That or they read the first couple chapters and then stopped. I will say that this series is, for the most part, incredibly wholesome. It is literally about a broken girl and awkward guy learning to not only go after what they want, but also learning how to love. Did the FMC make mistakes in the past, yeah, but the story also very clearly shows that she was kinda manipulated into thinking what she was doing was normal by the first person she was with. There are moments during these flashback scenes where you can see that she isn't necessarily the most comfortable or complete agree with this guys ideas, but goes along with them because she "loves" him, and even that "love" is very skewed. The main character then comes in and slowly teaches her that these ideas aren't necessarily true and that, basically, her view of love/relationships had been incredibly warped. I will also say that the story very rarely focuses directly on her backstory, and it's used more as flavor text than anything else. Literally the majority of chapters are just the two of them in a lovey-dovey relationship to the point where I could describe it as being sickeningly wholesome.
Now with all that said, the series, in my eyes, gets kinda tainted when they start bringing in some of the side characters in later chapters(~50+). The story during these sections becomes far less about the two MCs and more about the other side characters and their, frankly, damaged personalities and relationships. The one I personally hate the most is the FMCs best friend. It was an incredibly difficult set of chapters to read and made me really not like her as a person and feel really bad for the guy she is with. The weirdest part is that at around this time the series really focuses on this idea of these people being incapable of feeling/understanding love. Like, literally 4 out of 5 of these side characters have a variation of this very problem. Hell you could even say the FMC had this as well until the MC came along. The only thing is that I feel like the author doesn't fully believe this and is setting these characters up to eventually fall in love/find healthy relationships, much like the FMC, but it's too early to know. Regardless, if you're anything like me, just know that the later chapters are probably going to upset you to a certain degree. I will state though that these arcs have mostly lukewarm/bittersweet endings and never truly end on a depressing note; but they are none the less upsetting.
Another thing is these latest couple chapters have me a bit spooked. I get the feeling they are setting stuff up for some kind of misunderstanding or old feelings temporarily resurfacing to occur. I wouldn't call it anything ntr related, but definitely giving me uh-oh kinda vibes. I don't think this will be the case given everything in the story thus far, but the shit being setup is definitely being done to create potential conflict between the MC and FMC. I hope I am wrong and it doesn't; and we just get more wholesome shit, because I definitely feel that this is where both the author and the series excel in.
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