My New Wife Is Forcing Herself to Smile - Vol. 1 Ch. 13

[Kami_Nana]

@DevLogger You're forgetting the part where she's keeping what amounts to a mask up all the time. He's not going to force her(or so he believes it would be forced) and she's bound herself by feminine expectations(that Japanese society put on her). They really do need to talk, though...

 

[DevLogger]

@Kami_Nana: Then the mask that Chiyo is wearing must be different than what we, the audience are seeing, because that facade wouldn't fool a 13 year old virgin. There is such a thing as suspension of disbelief, but that husband might as well not have eyes.

 

[Sicknasty]

getting jealous of the man who your wife had sex with isn't cool at all, so what if chiyo isn't a virgin lmao don't romanticize this kind of attitude ew

 

[TNT261]

Okay she couldn’t possibly have been married off in historical Japan AND be that innocent. Doesn’t she have a little sister? I feel like they taught prospective wives (and husbands) how children are made (otherwise there would be no births)

@Sicknasty I mean likewise don’t attack someone just for having “feelings” of jealousy. Contrary to popular belief we cannot control how we feel. We can control how we react to our feelings and what we think about them (we may also have feelings about our feelings we can’t control; it’s pointlessly complicated and annoying and honestly emotions are overrated if you ask me). But we can only ever act after the fact (feeling) we can’t control our emotions themselves. He loves her and wants to monopolize her, so he feels jealous at the thought of someone else having had sex with her. He isn’t devaluing her as a partner or a person or saying that her virginity makes him want her more (actually it’s quite the opposite), but that he WANTS the honor of being the first person she’s been with. Again that’s nothing he can control. We often don’t pick and choose our wants we just feel them or have them. It’s how we act on the ones that may be harmful to others that determines who we are, and here he DOES stop himself from acting on his impulses and realizes that his thoughts if jealousy would not be fair to her. That’s the most we could ever ask of any human being. Your essentially insulting him for something no one can control. And this is how jealousy actually is. Its nothing any of us what to happen (over anything or one), but it just does. We should NEVER judge people on their thoughts or feelings; their actions and behavior sure, but what you’re calling disgusting (“ew”) is one a whole another path of wrong. That direction of thinking is basically the core principle of every dystopian novel ever.

 

[Sicknasty]

@TNT261 I feel disgust when I read a romanticized jealousy over someone having sex with his/her past relationship they even made it seem cute lmao, that just won't change, but my disgust is momentary and flexible me judging the manga in this chapter doesn't mean I don't understand his position. Thanks for the preach doe

 

[newmangareader246]

what kind of pillows are those? Jesus they look uncomfortable. no wonder they can't get in the mood for sex more hand holding

 

[Fukei_Mono]

Dear Buddha! Handholding from the get-go?!

 

[TanithG]

They really went with the handholding meme

 

[EVILTRAFFICCONE]

IMPOSSIBLE

 

[NaciremaMi]

My god, where's the sexual violence tag? Handholding?!

 

[BennyHawk7]

LEWDDD

 

[Taehyun-11]

Lewd ... ATLEAST KISS EACH OTHER !

 

[Sadisticmale]

@Sicknasty

Don't read a manga based on medieval Japan.


Or better yet don't read manga at all.

 

[Sicknasty]

@Sadisticmale lmao if all medieval-esque setting in manga protagonist thinks like this then i'll gladly put it down and never look at it again. but unfortunately we have been blessed by berserk, and kingdom.

and nah dropping hxh and jujutsu kaisen bc of this? your opinion is shit ptui

 

[Sadisticmale]

Well I'll make it clear. I meant it in the context of ROMCOMS.
When I saw the description and tags I knew what to expect.

And btw do you even know what medieval means? They have skyscrapers, electricity in HxH.

 

[cksn]

this is so gay. she had damn well better be a virgin and you are not a man if you are too afraid of your wife's feelings to have sex with her. and it's our fault, we turned Japan into this when we occupied it and imposed divorce laws.

 

[Danni4]

Please. Please fuxk. Before you both self destruct lol

 

[Ragu_Jostar]

She don't let her hair down at all huh

 

[Aslinn]

Fluff isn't meant to realistic 🤣

 

[valkarion]

Post-marital handholding is just as dangerous as the pre-marital one it seems.