Nanjou-san wa Boku ni Dakaretai - Vol. 1 Ch. 3 - First date with Nanjou-san

[SonicDisgaea98]

It's because chapter 1 was going with the Meguro angle of "I'm only fucking these guys to be accepted." and chapter 2 shows her delight in being accepted by the MC without spreading her legs.

But here we are in chapter 3 where she throws it all out the window by asking to get railed every passing moment. It would be funny if the developments of the first two chapters haven't happened yet but that's not the case here. It's like the author can't decide if he wants to write a wholesome girl or a bona fide slut. Everything about her is iffy.

Just like that one guy said, if they get into a little fight and she starts to believe the relationship is over, is she going to accept some guy's advances to avoid being alone? Is she going back to being the class bicycle? I can see it happening with the way she's presented so far.

Well, to be fair, it's the only way she knows how to have a relationship.

 

[SonicDisgaea98]

Well, looking forward to whatever comes next.

 

[Madokami]

Super cute chapter
Toxic abused relationships really mess up people, specially inexperienced young ones.
I hope they keep doing well.
Thanks for the chapters!

 

[Georgeorat]

I c, you planning on publishing a tutorial on how to STD ? Heh

Some contraceptives also work as std prevention, if you didn't know.
If this was more of a joke with a sidedig, its crappy, try again

 

[tantei_metal]

i don't really feel the chemistry here. i know how these type of series usually go, but if it subverted my expectations and they just ended up as friends in the end, I'd be all for it.

 

[ILOVECODY]

"Wanna fuck in the back?" Lmao

 

[arlindofrancisco]

Dating her would be a act of friendship and helping her would be nice but... dating her for real? Bruh, no fucking way, I get it... she is a nice girl, but for her to fall into her old ways is just too dangerous.

 

[anf1703]

“gimme backshots” ass response

 

[Eighty-six]

They are in highschool though. Not mature enough to handle any of it. This includes all parties involved. All the classmates she fucked will come crashing down on the dude sooner or later. Kids are mean and ruthless

when those guys grow faces, the MC's gonna have to have a whole training arc just to hope to fend them off

they gonna change the manga's whole genre

So, two things I have gathered from this chapter regarding Nanjou's attitude towards sex and relationships.

First, she has never had a normal relationship before, either romantic/sexual OR platonic. People complaining about her being a slut are forgetting that. She basically was a loner introvert right up until high school where she changed her image, and unfortunately drew the attention of guys just looking for an easy lay (which she obliged because of low self-worth due to no confidence). So, she has little to no idea of how to act in a 'normal' relationship, which is why she keeps bringing up sex. It's all she's been taught up to this point.

Secondly, she MIGHT also be using sex as a sort of defense mechanism for unfamiliar situations and feelings. Since it's all she knows, it's the only thing she can 'rely' on. I'm sure we will see less of her just pushing for sex as they develop their relationship.

Looking forward to it.

Honestly, I think she also might actually enjoy sex.

 

[Nermie01]

Honestly, I think she also might actually enjoy sex.

While that might be the case, I honestly doubt it. The guys that she is used to being with sexually are not the types to care about how their partner is feeling during sex, clearly, with how they act towards her. So I highly doubt that she's ever had an actually enjoyable sexual encounter. No, I'm pretty confident in my original assessment of her attitude towards sex.

 

[Eighty-six]

While that might be the case, I honestly doubt it. The guys that she is used to being with sexually are not the types to care about how their partner is feeling during sex, clearly, with how they act towards her. So I highly doubt that she's ever had an actually enjoyable sexual encounter.

Even granting all of that, that still wouldn't necessarily mean she doesn't enjoy sex.

Meanwhile, she keeps making unapologetic sexual invitations towards someone she knows for sure isn't making their relationship contingent on their having sex.

I think your assessment is right, but I also don't think that the narrative allows us to think that she lacks intrinsic interest in sex.

 

[Nermie01]

Even granting all of that, that still wouldn't necessarily mean she doesn't enjoy sex.

Meanwhile, she keeps making unapologetic sexual invitations towards someone she knows for sure isn't making their relationship contingent on their having sex.

I think your assessment is right, but I also don't think that the narrative allows us to think that she lacks intrinsic interest in sex.

Oh, I wasn't implying that she lacks an interest in sex. She clearly understands that sex is a part of romantic relationships, it's just that all of her 'relationships' up to this point have skipped the whole romantic part and gone straight to sex. Thus, that is what she relies on because that's all she knows. However, again. Having an interest in sex is not the same thing as enjoying it, because of my aforementioned point about her previous partners.

Guaranteed when these two actually start having sex will blow her mind, since our ML will actually try to pay attention to her pleasure. Probably.

 

[Eighty-six]

Having an interest in sex is not the same thing as enjoying it, because of my aforementioned point about her previous partners.

I didn't address that part, earlier, but it's just as possible that they would care about her pleasure as a point of pride for themselves-- that wouldn't contradict them using her just for sex.

Anyhow, there's no real indication either way about whether she enjoyed the sex she was having beyond some indirect implication of her sexual forwardness with the ML.

 

[AbsoluteMik]

so basically this manga is about a lonely pubescent girl?? so he sold himself to get attention 😆 😆

 

[curvedtree]

"I had a blast!" isn't it a bit too much? They saw video games and MC shared about his likes and then they went to a place she enjoyed, that's hardly "a blast", I wished the author took it more seriously.

 

[poopy420]

Okay apart from fmc being a horn dog half the time this was wholesome date. good stuff

 

[Shad24772]

So, two things I have gathered from this chapter regarding Nanjou's attitude towards sex and relationships.

First, she has never had a normal relationship before, either romantic/sexual OR platonic. People complaining about her being a slut are forgetting that. She basically was a loner introvert right up until high school where she changed her image, and unfortunately drew the attention of guys just looking for an easy lay (which she obliged because of low self-worth due to no confidence). So, she has little to no idea of how to act in a 'normal' relationship, which is why she keeps bringing up sex. It's all she's been taught up to this point.

Secondly, she MIGHT also be using sex as a sort of defense mechanism for unfamiliar situations and feelings. Since it's all she knows, it's the only thing she can 'rely' on. I'm sure we will see less of her just pushing for sex as they develop their relationship.

Looking forward to it.

that's all nice and fine, but you omitted another factor. Family. this ch3, she brings up that she has...or had, a good relationship with her family. Had, because she didn't tell them where she was going out all the time, which irl, would be a big red flag. Yet the family, ignored it.

Anyway, she had the cushion of her family to not have to jump into being a slut. Yet she still ended up like this. So no, at this point of the story, she dumb as fuck