Noa-senpai wa Tomodachi. - Vol. 5 Ch. 44 - Noa-Senpai and RINE Addiction

[Killthescribe]

She's gonna have like 17 kids if they ever get together. Or 0. She'd probably be jealous of the kids.

 

[rayce]

"both characters I have a crush on resemble my best friend. huh. Cool!"
Omgggg you dense beautiful bastard!

Holy fuck I cannot wait until she connects those dots.

 

[danglion]

Noa senpai is giving me neurodivergent vibes, like she needs to talk about her special interests or she’ll die which I can relate to, also dudes better then me, half naked at home & wants headpats, I’d fold

 

[Chronigan]

Does uninstalling Line delete your messages?

Only one way to find out.

 

[MadMarx]

There is no typo. I usually vary between 10 messages a day to 1 000 depending on my mood and comfort level, if I don't use voice chat that is. It was just daily small talk.

I’m sorry but that is psychotic

 

[onichin]

Every chapter we are getting closer to seggs

I bet there's a doujin already. If not, I really need to learn how to draw again.

 

[KeyaBladeA]

This isn't actually a romance manga. Yet.

The funniest thing about that is that this has more romance that 95% of Romcoms

 

[Highorse]

lowkey Rihito being bothered enough to count 42 messages puts him on the problem list too. Wait, they've ALL always been on the problem list, haven't they? They're so made for each other

 

[Scipo0419]

There is no typo. I usually vary between 10 messages a day to 1 000 depending on my mood and comfort level, if I don't use voice chat that is. It was just daily small talk.

I'm not going to go as far as to call that "psychotic", but that's incredibly unhealthy and you probably need to restrict your messaging or talk to a therapist to find out why you're so reliant on superficial communication. Especially the sending 3,000 messages to someone while they're sleeping. If the person was asleep for 8 hours, you sent over 6 messages a minute, that's roughly one every 10 seconds. For 8 hours! That's no longer simply a situation of "God forbid girls text someone."

 

[AdmiralSilver]

Put some clothes on goddamn

 

[Tinker_OwO]

It kind of annoyed me that he didn’t hug her. Even as a friend, a hug should be okay, in fact, it was very rude that he didn’t do it!

Well, I guess it’s just a difference in culture

 

[eater_of_child]

lowkey Rihito being bothered enough to count 42 messages puts him on the problem list too. Wait, they've ALL always been on the problem list, haven't they? They're so made for each other

no, it shows how many messages she sent him on the right
also they should just fuck already its been like 40 chapters

 

[javajulien]

This really shouldn't amuse me as much as it does.

That moment she was being a complete asshole, but she wasn't wrong. lol

 

[anonymousthief]

Put some clothes on goddamn

Nah, she can stay naked. Enjoy the view.

 

[LeonsamaX]

She did it and managed to cut it down to under 50%!
Seeing them stay friends while he helps her is great. I just hope they don't wait till it the second to last chapter to finally get together 😭

 

[jecroisenlasuperioritedubel]

I’m sorry but that is psychotic

I'm not going to go as far as to call that "psychotic", but that's incredibly unhealthy and you probably need to restrict your messaging or talk to a therapist to find out why you're so reliant on superficial communication.

Why restrict something I am fine with? Just as how we don't keep number of sentences we use while speaking, I simply write and send whatever comes to my mind. No need to pay for some guy to listen to my yapping about which flavor of ice-cream should I eat. My friend or notepad do it for free.

 

[Scipo0419]

Why restrict something I am fine with? Just as how we don't keep number of sentences we use while speaking, I simply write and send whatever comes to my mind. No need to pay for some guy to listen to my yapping about which flavor of ice-cream should I eat. My friend or notepad do it for free.

Well, for one, is your friend actually fine with it? Or are they putting up with it because they're your friend? I'm not trying to imply anything, I don't know you or your friend after all, but as someone who's been best friends with someone for 19 years I can safely say there's been plenty of times that I wish he'd stop texting me so much and only didn't stop him because he's my friend.

I'm also someone who's going through therapy for issues with my family, and sure some sessions do feel like I'm just letting her listen to me yammer on about nothing, and Journaling is extremely good for your mental health too (I don't do it, but I've read up on it). But ultimately, you're relying on 10s messages sent over an 8 hour time span (estimate based on the numbers you gave previously), and I would bet money that you didn't think up something important in those 10s that needed to be sent right then and there while your friend was asleep. That's what's unhealthy. Most people don't want to wake up to 10 messages sent while they're asleep, let alone 3,000.

You do you, but from what you've said in the handful of posts, it seems like you're craving some kind of connection with someone even if it's superficial. I'd recommend some self reflection and speaking to a professional if you think I'm right about any of this, and again I don't know you and am only basing this off two or three forum posts so I could be entirely off base. Just trying to lend a friendly hand.

 

[jecroisenlasuperioritedubel]

Well, for one, is your friend actually fine with it? Or are they putting up with it because they're your friend? I'm not trying to imply anything, I don't know you or your friend after all, but as someone who's been best friends with someone for 19 years I can safely say there's been plenty of times that I wish he'd stop texting me so much and only didn't stop him because he's my friend.

I'm also someone who's going through therapy for issues with my family, and sure some sessions do feel like I'm just letting her listen to me yammer on about nothing, and Journaling is extremely good for your mental health too (I don't do it, but I've read up on it). But ultimately, you're relying on 10s messages sent over an 8 hour time span (estimate based on the numbers you gave previously), and I would bet money that you didn't think up something important in those 10s that needed to be sent right then and there while your friend was asleep. That's what's unhealthy. Most people don't want to wake up to 10 messages sent while they're asleep, let alone 3,000.

You do you, but from what you've said in the handful of posts, it seems like you're craving some kind of connection with someone even if it's superficial. I'd recommend some self reflection and speaking to a professional if you think I'm right about any of this, and again I don't know you and am only basing this off two or three forum posts so I could be entirely off base. Just trying to lend a friendly hand.

It's fine. No offense taken and wishing the best for you.

There are some people you can talk about Everything for hours and some people that can go silent for weeks. If they weren't fine with it, they wouldn't read them all and continue where i left off. It's just easier for me to reach a thousand messages if we are actively talking for hours. I personally would like to read 3 000 or 500 or even 50 messages when i wake up. It is exciting to see that while I was asleep time moved onwards. What I don't agree with is this : just Because I write to them a lot, doesn't mean it's superficial. Sure it bugs me as I always have a higher message count, but it doesn't make the relationship less shallow.

 

[Scipo0419]

It's fine. No offense taken and wishing the best for you.

There are some people you can talk about Everything for hours and some people that can go silent for weeks. If they weren't fine with it, they wouldn't read them all and continue where i left off. It's just easier for me to reach a thousand messages if we are actively talking for hours. I personally would like to read 3 000 or 500 or even 50 messages when i wake up. It is exciting to see that while I was asleep time moved onwards. What I don't agree with is this : just Because I write to them a lot, doesn't mean it's superficial. Sure it bugs me as I always have a higher message count, but it doesn't make the relationship less shallow.

I'm sorry if I came off as saying your relationship is shallow. By superficial, I meant only "small talk", which is important to have but not really a conversation. Again, if you're happy and it's not affecting your friendships in a negative way then it's fine (which is why I initially said I wouldn't go as far as to call that psychotic), but as someone who had someone threaten to kill themself if I stopped talking to them because they desperately craved any kind of connection and she only text me random nonsense 99% of the time, I just initially feel that 1 message every 10s on average is probably not a deep conversation especially if the other person is asleep the entire time.

I ultimately couldn't handle the stress of being someone's lifeline as I was only a pre-teen myself at the time and I did end up blocking her. I only hope she didn't act on her threat and still regret how I handled the situation over 20 years later.

 

[jecroisenlasuperioritedubel]

I'm sorry if I came off as saying your relationship is shallow. By superficial, I meant only "small talk", which is important to have but not really a conversation. Again, if you're happy and it's not affecting your friendships in a negative way then it's fine (which is why I initially said I wouldn't go as far as to call that psychotic), but as someone who had someone threaten to kill themself if I stopped talking to them because they desperately craved any kind of connection and she only text me random nonsense 99% of the time, I just initially feel that 1 message every 10s on average is probably not a deep conversation especially if the other person is asleep the entire time.

I ultimately couldn't handle the stress of being someone's lifeline as I was only a pre-teen myself at the time and I did end up blocking her. I only hope she didn't act on her threat and still regret how I handled the situation over 20 years later.

You are not at fault and never was. It was not your responsibility in the first place. She is probably fine. It is a manipulation tactic. I don't use that, don't worry. If someone doesn't want to speak, so be it. I share Because I want, not that I need it. I just had a lot to share that specific day and in general I like to talk. You shouldn't regret, you probably chose the best decision you could at the time. Give yourself a rest. Love you xxx)