Reminds me of my favourite MC from a series called LotM. Not sure if you've heard of it but it's about a guy who gets isekai'd mysteriously and is poor all the time even after starting a secret cult (he needs the money to buy bread, pies and other delicacies) and avoids the topic of marriage pretty easily on multiple occasions using his
fraudulence lack of money intelligence.
Or maybe it's because the author isn't good at writing romance for main charactes? At least he avoided it instead of writing bad romance. But there were a few decent romantic scenes as well. Why's there so much yaoi in the fandom? And the art is so good! 🤤