lmao, what about all the poor fucks who make a bad call and have their first time with some utter psycho who's good at hiding it from people? are they supposed to suffer forever at their hands, or break up and then live out the rest of their life without love, never getting to have anything better than that first hell? get off your unrealistic fucking high horse. the whole "don't be promiscuous" bit, sure, whatever, there's good reasons against that, but the whole "even at different times in their life" bit just reeks of a poisonous sort of religiosity.