gotta admit I don't know what the other world's standards are for appearance and personality, but it seems to me you aren't likely to find a lot of strong good looking guys with what we would consider decent personalities if you work with people who do short term and potentially life threatening work...and if you do find one, there's a decent chance he'll never come back one day, either dead or gone with another girl who did more than drool while watching as he walked away every day