Best physical revenge is the one that lasts the longest.
Best Mental revenge is the one that restricts the victim's ability to communicate and call for help around them
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Just because you were able to overcome an affliction/adversity that I caused; does not mean you affect me negatively at all.
Congratulations you made yourself feel better by setting an arbitrary construct of me in your own mind that you were able to defeat triumphly. You have defeated a figment of your own imagination Woo, Good Job.