Sasha-chan to Classmate Otaku-kun - Vol. 3 Ch. 33 - Only Their Secret.

[Dingo777]

I was talking about not being in a relationship with a girl because of her past, not being sex friends. Like I wrote in an earlier post, casual sex isn't really my thing because I think it's an false dichotomy between love and intimacy. I probably couldn't handle that, because it would just feel wrong to me.
I wouldn't be in a open relationship and I'd be reluctant to have casual sex, but I don't think I'd lose interest in a girl because she'd have a promiscious past. Though of course if a girl had a promiscious past, there's a big chance she'd look at romance and sex as two different things that would be hard for me to handle.

I feel like we’re like, MOSTLY agreeing so I won’t press it.

 

[kyewby]

Collecting, critiquing, and creating porn is not a typical adolescence. Everyone who does that is a degenerate.

Yeah that's just straight up wrong. Almost every person I went to school with who was artistic in any form at some point drew porn, and just about everybody at that age had some level of interest in sex, however open they were about it. Believing that the vast majority of adolescents aren't consuming porn to some degree is outright fucking delusional lmao. That is all fairly normal adolescent behaviour. Having an abusive sexual relationship with an older guy at the age of 12-13 is absolutely not. It happens, but it's 100% not the norm.

That said I'm gonna keep reading this one just to see how low this nosedive goes, and to read the forum threads lol.

 

[PlasmaLance07]

She is so broken that I want to hug her and tell her the lie that everything will be fine.

Mom and dad married each other twice then divorced twice.
Dad is in Russia so no father figure.
Mom is out with her boyfriend most the time so no parent figure at home.
Uncle groomed her.
Multiple guys rape an elementary school girl regularly and convince her that is normal.

And Mangadex readers call her a slut, whore, and cumdump.
Her value system regarding sex and relationships has been destroyed by everyone except her schoolmates.

I'm not going to stop reading because it's a fun story despite the darkness underneath.

Thank you for saying this everyone in the manga comments do not realize this girl has been a victim like she honestly needs a hug

 

[PlasmaLance07]

Does anyone know in the future do they get together and does it still heavily involve the fact she been raped multiple times and use it as comedy for laughs and giggles

 

[SrNevik]

Does anyone know in the future do they get together and does it still heavily involve the fact she been raped multiple times and use it as comedy for laughs and giggles

Spoiler: Spoilers....obviously...

It'll have a happy ending for the main couple. It's not ended yet though. I've commented about this before. It's also always a romcom. If the sexual humor isn't for you, that doesn't change.

 

[kyewby]

Though of course if a girl had a promiscious past, there's a big chance she'd look at romance and sex as two different things that would be hard for me to handle.

Almost a guarantee in my experience, both first-hand and second-hand (mostly second, I learned after the first time. My friends did not). I think there's just always gonna be an incompatibility to some degree between two people who put different levels of importance on sex.

There's a difference between not wanting to date somebody with that sort of past vs. demonising them for it though. The former is having a preference, the latter is just being insecure.

 

[kn4ll]

Yeah that's just straight up wrong. Almost every person I went to school with who was artistic in any form at some point drew porn, and just about everybody at that age had some level of interest in sex, however open they were about it. Believing that the vast majority of adolescents aren't consuming porn to some degree is outright fucking delusional lmao. That is all fairly normal adolescent behaviour. Having an abusive sexual relationship with an older guy at the age of 12-13 is absolutely not. It happens, but it's 100% not the norm.

That said I'm gonna keep reading this one just to see how low this nosedive goes, and to read the forum threads lol.

It's a bit different today than it was when I grew up 25 years ago though. Then you'd get some porn from your brother or whatever that was fairly tame. Now you can find with just a click double ass penetration and group gang bangs. The level is completely different. Thinking how porn over the years has affected the population (oral getting popularized by porn, and anal getting normalized the past years) it wouldn't surprise me if kids grow up thinking that DAP is a completely normal thing to do.

 

[gronkle]

Believing that the vast majority of adolescents aren't consuming porn to some degree is outright fucking delusional lmao.

Correct, which is why that isn't my belief. Having porn as your hobby at 12 definitely is not normal, however. You confirm that here:

Almost every person I went to school with who was artistic in any form at some point drew porn

Artists are degenerates, this is a self-evident truth. They are also far from normal.

just about everybody at that age had some level of interest in sex, however open they were about it.

That is a factual statement, but has nothing to do with my point.

That is all fairly normal adolescent behaviour.

They are not adolescent. They are pubescent. You can even see it in the character design. That's something to keep in mind here, because while a fascination with porn at 14+ is not unexpected, Sasha and Fujiwara are barely even Tanner 2.

There is also the fact that this is set in a fictional, idealised world where the consumption of pornography at a young age is probably meant to be scandalising.

 

[3ds1234]

I stood around cause I thought the author was going for the "shes not a pure virgin girl!!!!!!" trope which was already problematic (since shes 12), but was still somewhat fun cause you could see incels fuming over it every chapter.


The things I have read since the reveal though, about Sasha having sex with lots of grown up men are way way beyond what I was expecting, this shit is disturbing considering it is a middle schooler. I will keep my sanity and drop this thing

Either you're dumb or you seriously did know anything about haguhagu. Probs both.

 

[D0ncoming5torm]

It's a blessing that I could witness this rare moment

 

[3ds1234]

I was talking about not being in a relationship with a girl because of her past

I don't see how not wanting to date someone because of their past makes someone insecure. That sounds like having boundaries a healthy thing any human being should have.

So someone is insecure if they don't want to date a single mother, or a girl that's slept with 20 dudes, or a guy that's killed someone and got away with it? (Tho that one actually gets girls interested surprisingly.) Or a dude that's molested women, or a dude that makes no money and doesn't seem to have a future etc etc. This idea of not wanting to date someone because of things they've done in the past seems perfectly normal to me.

Why should people who don't meet your requirements have access to relationship with you? Just seems nonsensical.

 

[Flipinusername]

And here i thought i could go the broken elf route, and pretend the other material doesn't exist.
Welp and my two cents are, people thought it was going to be a lewd comedy about a couple exploring this stuff, hence the outrage after it turns out its not going to be. I'll most likely continue to see the happy ending, sadly we probably aren't going to see the mc growing a pair and beating up the dudes she was sleeping with.

 

[Sloth295]

that's it, I'm done, drop it, might as well read the doujin, NTR hentai is totally different than NTR romcom, one is for jokes/fap material and another gonna seep into the mind, the kind of mindset the MC is having is corrosive to your soul

 

[kn4ll]

I don't see how not wanting to date someone because of their past makes someone insecure. That sounds like having boundaries a healthy thing any human being should have.

So someone is insecure if they don't want to date a single mother, or a girl that's slept with 20 dudes, or a guy that's killed someone and got away with it? (Tho that one actually gets girls interested surprisingly.) Or a dude that's molested women, or a dude that makes no money and doesn't seem to have a future etc etc. This idea of not wanting to date someone because of things they've done in the past seems perfectly normal to me.

Why should people who don't meet your requirements have access to relationship with you? Just seems nonsensical.

Because putting the value and worth of a woman on how many they have slept with is the epitome of insecurity.

 

[Sloth295]

Because putting the value and worth of a woman on how many they have slept with is the epitome of insecurity.

utter woke nonsense

 

[jak]

Considering how non-chalant she's about sex, even if he was her boyfriend, she would probably still have multiple sex friends.

 

[OSAITUS]

Putting the age thing aside (though as hard as it may be)... Now is the story of a very innocent guy and a more experienced (some may say more openminded) girl... still i wouldn´t call this an NTR... the trope has the whole humiliation thing towards the cuck and here the kid is not humiliated, emasculated or defeated, sure... he does feel heartache, but at the level of knowing the girl you like is with someone else... that corner chair is there, but the kid is not sitting on it yet

 

[Dingo777]

Because putting the value and worth of a woman on how many they have slept with is the epitome of insecurity.

Value and worth are separate from “datability”. For example maybe you have a leg fetish, you don’t have to hate double amputees to not want to date them, they just don’t align with what you look for in a romantic partner.

 

[kn4ll]

Value and worth are separate from “datability”. For example maybe you have a leg fetish, you don’t have to hate double amputees to not want to date them, they just don’t align with what you look for in a romantic partner.

The difference of a woman who has slept with one person or with ten hasn't got to do with her, it has got to do with your perception of her. And if you view her as something less because of that, it has got to do with you and your insecurity in yourself. It hasn't really got anything to do with her. She's the same person regardless.

 

[eviljackspicer]

Everyone who does that is a degenerate. Myself included.

LMAO