Ghosts her at her coming of age party then proposes to her the next day. Really sending mixed signals there, she probably has no clue what to think.
@Doomer I want to believe they are just worried about her social life. A lot of weird rumors are now circulating since she didn't attend the coming of age ceremony and the earl is trying to stop those asap so that she (or possibly the other family) won't be ostracized or something.
The actual dragging part was probably just for that one dude. They were required to great him by social etiquette, but they weren't going to risk letting him get close to her unguarded. Just trying to make it clear from the get go that she is OFF LIMITS!
@RimuruXD Oh, thank you for telling me! You have no clue how confused I was. I was starting to think it was some sort of Japanese joke