i confused about whether Kyoko is a bad mother or a good mother
Because he's running some kind of social experiment.Now, another thing that’s a bit strange if Kaname decided to tell everyone that they aren’t related, why didn’t he reveal the truth to Minami and Shion that their biological mother had been with them for 95% of their lives?
Exactly. This is my real question because it feels very meh. Even if you want to play the “not dropping too much on them”: card it kinda falls flat. As if Kaname didn’t say you’re not my kids into immediately leaving before they can ask any questions is certainly a move of all time. Only to later then find out your actual mom was with you the whole time? This is certainly a family in a manga alright.Well, the twins’ father is a real jerk, and I really feel sorry for Yamaguchi.
However, I don’t know how others feel, but for me this series is starting to feel a bit “coincidental” it just so happens that Kaname adopted the twins, it just so happens that Kaname’s wife turned out to be Yamaguchi’s acquaintance, and it just so happens that Kaname isn’t a complete jerk and as a rich man has “feelings.”
Now, another thing that’s a bit strange if Kaname decided to tell everyone that they aren’t related, why didn’t he reveal the truth to Minami and Shion that their biological mother had been with them for 95% of their lives?
Probably in a few chapters they’ll learn the truth, and it will surely be an emotional chapter.
they were born when she was 24, they are 16-17 now. puts her right at 40-41Interesting but aside from the coincidence, it would have meant more if we actually knew the maid beforehand. Also, she looks way too old, her children are just teenagers, she probably isn't even 40 years old
Interesting but aside from the coincidence, it would have meant more if we actually knew the maid beforehand. Also, she looks way too old, her children are just teenagers, she probably isn't even 40 years old
She was 24 when she had the twins and they’re now 15 so she’s 39 as we speakInteresting but aside from the coincidence, it would have meant more if we actually knew the maid beforehand. Also, she looks way too old, her children are just teenagers, she probably isn't even 40 years old
Their ages are revealed in the first chapterI honestly don't remember what year Minami & Shion are in - 2nd year of high school, maybe?
Going with that, they'd be 16 or 17 years old; their mother had them at 24, so she'd be 40 or 41 at that point.
But - she also was living in poverty after their birth, and as a single parent and then a single woman afterward, there's every chance she didn't have the most "comfortable" life to that point. And stress, especially socioeconomic stress, will age people prematurely.
So even at 40, if she wasn't eating well for part of her early adulthood life and then had a "comfortable job" as a live-in nanny for the ~15 years she's with the Shiunji's, those effects would persist.
To say nothing of the low-grade stress that is keeping her identity secret, while being literally around her children their whole lives and not being able to tell them the truth--on top of the guilt she felt at having to give them up, only to turn around and miss them enough to beg to be "the Help" for their adoptive parents just to be near them.
All of that to say - the emotional, physical, and mental toll of that sort of life over close to two decades showing as "age" on her is understandable.
I absolutely think she made the correct decision, because ultimately her children stood a better chance rolling the dice with adoption than they would with her--a single parent slipping into poverty, unable to keep up with her own needs and theirs.Honestly I think that their mother made the right decision. Whether or not that’s good or bad is really is up to your own personal preference and beliefs. If you don’t fully trust and believe in yourself to take on that role of being a parent then you shouldn’t do it. The adoption system itself I’m sure has many problems of its own that I don’t deny, but many people still consider the best option.
Now everything else after that is just pure plot convenience, there’s no other way around that. Finding the mom who just so happens to have your kids yada yada.
Kaname choosing not to tell them is a very interesting decision and I’m hoping we get into that soon. From the perspective of someone who’s not a parent .. he’s not exactly father of the year. So we’ll see how Reiji decides to move forward with him.
was worried it was buried somewhere in the narrative so I didn't go looking - but even at 39, I stand by the rest of my argument.Their ages are revealed in the first chapter
There's no other way to look at it. She knew she had no way to raise the kids but still gave birth to them. She may not have aborted them but if Japan didn't have good adoption services, she might have as well killed them to poverty.i confused about whether Kyoko is a bad mother or a good motherbut L real father minami & shion
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