@Anra777
I’m afraid it’s not self-deprication, but rather an acknowledgement that “gay” used as a slang and “gay” used as a term to denote homosexuality are entirely different. Very different connotations and meanings. Like a black man saying the n-word and a slave owner saying it. Using a word in a non-bigoted and very acceptable manner is perfectly fine.
@katanon
It’s not perfectly acceptable to say the n-word to black people. Due to various social connotations surrounding the word itself (slave owners using it to refer to slaves and then white folks using it to refer to black folks), and the fact that the word “bitch” has existed for literal centuries, these are very different terms used in very different ways. Saying “gay” on tv does not get you barred from ever appearing on a special again.
Not once have I used an individual’s sexuality against them. I have not, nor will I ever, tell someone that being homosexual makes them less of a person. But you don’t understand that, so it’s pointless to say it to you regardless.
If you are personally, genuinely offended because you yourself are a homosexual, I apologize for the discomfort I’ve caused you. But I don’t intend to stop, yes, because, as you can see from the positive response by the majority, you and @Anra777 are in the minority. You are one of a few individuals who are absolutely obsessed with controlling language in a way the majority of people—including most of the people you say it’s being used against—are perfectly comfortable.
I have not made any discriminatory comment, nor do I harass people for being homosexuals. If you find evidence of such behavior from myself, feel free to speak up. Otherwise, a simple offhanded comment is an awful lot to assume a personality, mindset, and lifestyle from.
For your very own sake, I shall now begin to use “queer” and “straight” in place of “gay” at times. You’re welcome. We can all be equally offended together.