This is literally you doing the thing I told you you were doing. This one personal choice that is, at worst, a way for her to make money, has had you throw everything else aside and go "she's terrible, she's a whore, she's just as bad as the wife who has made a tape line he can't cross in the house." By just knowing she's posted bikini selfies you're convinced she's an awful person, which is, I'm sorry, totally nuts, and the fact that you've done this means communicating with you over this will require debate over fundamental things and that's just not worth anyone's god damn time