@JWChibi
Right, like it'd be one thing if she intended to adopt the child out or something, and she thinks she can just have the child in secret and then adopt them out without anyone ever knowing, but she intends to raise the child herself. So like, I really don't know her plan here, but at the same time, I do know sometimes when faced with an unplanned pregnancy some women do just think and behave irrationally. Like, my mom was a neonatal nurse and she told me once she delivered a baby from a 15 year old girl who was in denial about the pregnancy even throughout the birth. Her parents had no idea either, girl just wore baggy clothing and said she was putting on weight. In her own mind, thats what was happening too. She couldn't cope with it I guess, so she just shut down any idea that she could be pregnant even though it was a possibility. Mom said it was one of the sadder cases she ever had to deal with bc the poor girl needed a lot of psychiatric care and the girl's parents were total assholes about it. Tried to tell my mom that "their daughter wasn't allowed to see the baby!" and my mom was like "Nope, not how that works. She is the parent of this child, like it or not, and if she requests to see her baby I legally have to oblige, but even if I didn't I would still let her see her baby because that's the right thing to do."
They were pissed about that lol.
But, I also don't think that's Fah's case either. She just doesn't want to deal with it and it making excuses, which is understandable, but it is going to happen eventually.
@ShaiHH
YUP. That's one of my biggest issues with Fah right now. Her bf has a right to know. I said it in a different comment but it's like, Fah honey, you have had 7 months now to come to terms with and prepare yourself for parenthood. It's gonna be a real dick move to just spring a whole ass child onto your BF with no warning, especially since you actually like the guy. I know you're scared of him leaving, but I mean, even if he does is what you're doing now really gonna be that different? You're already nixing him from the picture and just handling it yourself. And if you're going to keep the pregnancy, he has a right to know his child too.