@obsidianpassion men and women with a pre-existing relationship and understanding of barriers are allowed to depending on the feelings of the other party.
I don't get these kinds of comments. your personal barriers =/= others. Some want a more assertive spouse and that falls perfectly fine in all the consent stuff people talk about.
@venomx99x
Well, everything is different for individuals, but a gathering of queers can tend toward horny conversation topics and jokes slightly more quickly and intensely.
I had to quit a DND group over that. I just wanted to be a goofy mage... she was a really naive character, and was scandalised at every turn.
And the “this fantasy situation, but queer” got so old.
@Thrembs I kinda notice that too, though it really depends on who's in your group personality wise just like in any spacw. If it makes you uncomfortable you could look for spaces where ace people are part of the mix and so horny topics come up less frequently/are moved away from faster.
Idk what to do if you meant bars and such since I rarely drink.
@Amylase
Never been to a gay bar. I couldn’t find one that didn’t have themed events every night. Drag revue, beanbag toss, karaoke, trivia night, retro whatever... I just wanted to sit and have a drink in a safe environment.
I don’t drink anymore anyway, and I’m married. 🤷🏻♀️