@Nehona wiping the slate. This may not be the best action to do, but it is understandable. There are plenty of stalkers in addition to unhappy fans, that would totally destroy their relationship. The goal is to disappear for a few days until medias calm down (aka not being the main subject of every single tv news program). You can't blame her for that, there are many cases of stalk (from physical stalking to phone call spying/cameras etc). Getting married without having to hide from cameras, paparazzi and fans is what we would want if we were in their shoes.