ALL SHE DID WAS SLEEP WITH THE MAN SHE LOVED WITH ALL SINCERETY . IF YOU BELIEVE THAT SHE'S A 'USED HOLE' THEN ,YOU NEED MENTAL THERAPY . Its not like she slept around or had 4-5 relationships . I myself would choose a virgin over a non-virgin, but a girl like her is fine either way.
once the seal is opened then it's not new anymore, it's used, that's just plain fact, idk, I just see your way of thinking to be just strange, I just don't like imagining other guy's duck in that private area, I'm vanilla guy and I can't relate to you at all, it's like telling bot fly that honey is better than shit
anyway, all kind of sex before marriage are the same, and the "the man she loved" argument is as weak as wet biscuit, how much is it actually love nobody knows, and she could sleep with many dudes (again, nobody knows how many since asking it would get you incel label) and say she loved each of them at one point, that's how slut's mind works
I value virginity very highly, I see it as a form of loyalty as a whole not just the first time thing, like, she keeps herself away from lust and accident even when nobody asks and only presents herself for her marriage partner, I see that as an absolute gift you can't get from shops, otherwise don't bother forming a relationship and keep life as easy going for sex like Daredemo Dakeru Kimi ga Suki
I read these as entertainment, but I don't actually go around like that irl, I'm still preparing a proper marriage