I’m the one who don’t seem them together lol
She only notices him when he is not “into her”. I just think it comes from a place that she got used to him being her lapdog, and suddenly realizing he won’t be anymore scares her.
And for him, it’s been many years already, if he cannot be upfront with her in all this time, I don’t see it changing even if they are a couple.
But I’m sure they somehow will end up together... let’s see.