Ah yes, the abusive male lead. Everyone will stick up for him because he took it out on her but he also had suffer, so it's okay. Aka, the white washing of a terrible man.
Lots of people go through terrible things, they don't take it out on others.
Kind of a huge plothole on how everyone was treating the original female body like she insane, but when Winter gets it done... Uh huh. Sexism at it's finest: Men will still get it done, somehow.
She should just say, "My wife is insane, please make sure she doesn't leave her room." Then live her life. I mean, it's what he did to her. Respect is a two way street.