The old "this is about a friend" tactic, I see, lol
As much as I think Kylus is telling the truth, I feel like we got cut in his explanation and he wanted to say more, we KNOW he's in love, or at least likes Valerie very much beyond what he said here. I think it's just another case of him not having enough times/not being good with words, and I believe he chose Valerie because she has a more calm demeanor and because he likes her.
Thanks for the update!!