i think one reason why this guy seems sketch or off-putting is bc his advances and feigned ignorance (like his comment about expecting to explore the house alone with mildred, despite mildred having 3 young daughters she needs to look after!!!) reflects his... idk rather conceited personality. like in the last ch when she calls his attitude "cocky", this guy seems to think he's not exactly doing anything wrong when he's talking to FL, even though it's very easy to interpret his attitude as coming off too strong/borderline inappropriate.
i honestly don't think he's a bad person. i just think he needs to be reminded that not everyone will find him agreeable or give him a pass on the way he conducts himself 🤔 it's not a bad thing to have secrets or act somewhat mysterious or vague, but u gotta at least be considerate to the other party you're trying to woo talking to
thanks for the update! the writing for this story is actually kinda subtle and refreshing. i love seeing mama mildred put her daughters' well-being and education in the forefront of her thoughts 🥰🥰