30 different foods sounds so excessive. You don't need most nutrients every day, so you can spread it out over a week to reduce the effort in cooking. You can also find foods that give a greater variety of nutrients just by themselves.
"The more you try, the lamer it gets."
Nope. It's just other people who're envious about your enthusiasm, and cover it up by talking down on it. It's the effort that's the fun part.
"You're a loner, yet you won't look at your phone...?"
That's what being a loner is about. Not communicating unless necessary.
"It just looks so ungraceful."
This is just the lesser version of, "Normies go explode!"
"There's no way I'd use it as an excuse to flirt!"
And her response is to show her how much
she flirts. Based.
She's not a bad person, but at least she realises there's room for improvement.
Stumbled at the finish line. Just be honest. And it's much easier to see someone flustered if you can accept being flustered yourself.