He doesn't do shit for her; in the early chapters she passed out of exhaustion and he only complained about the burned dinner, or when she was full of stuff do and he would bitch bout x, y and z... her feelings, her needs, her comfort, NOTHING about You is remotely close to show any care to his wife so anyone that thinks he have any hint of love or affection for her is delusional.
He wants the comfort of having a maid doing everything while he play games and he doesn't have to pay her for it. Even roommates are closer than those two.