Her idea of a good wife is to do house chores? I mean that's important too, but girl, you're been slowly losing your husband over two years, there's no time for that especially when you suck at it. Invite him somewhere, go to the gym with him, talk to him, cook with him, try to be present for him.
Not like it's going to work out in the end, I'd give this relationship around 30% chance of survival.