Ane no Tomodachi - Ch. 15.2

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Does anyone else find it weird when they romanticize jealousy? If my partner wanted to control me to the point that I couldn't be around friends I would run. I get that they're in the awkward "I wonder if they like me too" phase and his jealousy is a sign that 'yes, he likes you." There are signs and there are red flags.

Perhaps it's like alcohol. A little gets you buzzed, and a lot gets you dead // A little jealousy is the dark side of love, a lot of jealousy is a violent crime.
 
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This is probably going into an irrelevant rabbit hole, but I just imagine a scenario where we didn't get a reveal on what MC really said so the TL group has to come up with something in the covered dialogue and one of them just used Lorem Ipsum and went with it. That would have been hilarious to see in the final output, intentional or not.
 
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Does anyone else find it weird when they romanticize jealousy? If my partner wanted to control me to the point that I couldn't be around friends I would run. I get that they're in the awkward "I wonder if they like me too" phase and his jealousy is a sign that 'yes, he likes you." There are signs and there are red flags.

Perhaps it's like alcohol. A little gets you buzzed, and a lot gets you dead // A little jealousy is the dark side of love, a lot of jealousy is a violent crime.
Excessive jealousy, then yeah. But I think a little jealousy is actually healthy. I mean, no guy wants to see the girl they’re in love with going to the beach and hanging out with other dudes without them there. It shows how much they love them. I think this level of jealousy is sweet and healthy.
 
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Does anyone else find it weird when they romanticize jealousy? If my partner wanted to control me to the point that I couldn't be around friends I would run. I get that they're in the awkward "I wonder if they like me too" phase and his jealousy is a sign that 'yes, he likes you." There are signs and there are red flags.

Perhaps it's like alcohol. A little gets you buzzed, and a lot gets you dead // A little jealousy is the dark side of love, a lot of jealousy is a violent crime.
Idk about you, but a little jealousy makes a lot of people feel good. Obviously when it's excessive it's toxic, but especially when you're still in the "maybe" phase of your relationship, knowing that the person you like gets jealous over can be a good thing when it comes to affirming feelings
 
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Does anyone else find it weird when they romanticize jealousy? If my partner wanted to control me to the point that I couldn't be around friends I would run. I get that they're in the awkward "I wonder if they like me too" phase and his jealousy is a sign that 'yes, he likes you." There are signs and there are red flags.

Perhaps it's like alcohol. A little gets you buzzed, and a lot gets you dead // A little jealousy is the dark side of love, a lot of jealousy is a violent crime.
Yeah, I usually find it off-putting if it's a controlling kind of jealousy. I think you got it right, here, where for Hinata, who's worried that she's beyond romantic consideration because he sees her as a sister/daughter/whatever, the idea of him feeling THAT kind of jealousy eliminates a lot of those possibilities and gives her a lot to hope or. I like that her reaction is less "smug satisfaction" and more "wide-eyed, gears turning," suggesting that she's not into the jealousy itself, but what it implies. "In order to have me all to himself, first he'd have to have me... he wants to have me?"

And in defense of his jealousy in this instance, the text goes above and beyond in riddling the classmate's beach invitation with obvious signs that this dude is not her friend, but a threatening fuckboy who wants to take advantage of her - she barely remembers his name, but he's blatantly staring at her tits, acting way too familiar, isolating her from Asahi and getting touchy to ask her a second time, and immediately flirting with others girls while Asahi and Hinako are walking away.

Ironically, they set up a "jealousy excludes dad/brother feelings" situation where dads and brothers would absolutely be like "never, ever be alone with that guy."
 
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I was THIS close to throw away my phone when she didn't hear it first time because of the fireworks... God... GOD... thank you, he said it second time...
Yeah, the trope of "character says something important, but a train passes by/fireworks go off/a truck passes by and they are at a busy highway for some fucking reason"... I hate that trope. Thank God it didn't go that route this time around.
 
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Gifted an opportunity and waste it being jealous/controlling. Still, dad senses aren’t wrong, if she goes to the beach she’s just gonna get drunk/drugged and raped by a bunch of guys in a van.
 
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Does anyone else find it weird when they romanticize jealousy? If my partner wanted to control me to the point that I couldn't be around friends I would run. I get that they're in the awkward "I wonder if they like me too" phase and his jealousy is a sign that 'yes, he likes you." There are signs and there are red flags.

Perhaps it's like alcohol. A little gets you buzzed, and a lot gets you dead // A little jealousy is the dark side of love, a lot of jealousy is a violent crime.
There's a valid concern if your romantic partner is saying that they don't want you going to [location] with members of the oppisite sex; especially if one or more of them appears to be and or is rumored to be a womanizer / seductress.

With that being said though, Hinako and Asahi are NOT dating / married, so him not wanting her to go to the beach with memebers of the opposite sex seems at the very least childish and at worse possessive.
 
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There's a valid concern if your romantic partner is saying that they don't want you going to [location] with members of the oppisite sex; especially if one or more of them appears to be and or is rumored to be a womanizer / seductress.

With that being said though, Hinako and Asahi are NOT dating / married, so him not wanting her to go to the beach with memebers of the opposite sex seems at the very least childish and at worse possessive.
He's a teenager? Hello?
 
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There's a valid concern if your romantic partner is saying that they don't want you going to [location] with members of the oppisite sex; especially if one or more of them appears to be and or is rumored to be a womanizer / seductress.

With that being said though, Hinako and Asahi are NOT dating / married, so him not wanting her to go to the beach with memebers of the opposite sex seems at the very least childish and at worse possessive.
Seems at the very least childish


Wow that's crazy, it's almost as if he was a literal teenager
 
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There's a valid concern if your romantic partner is saying that they don't want you going to [location] with members of the oppisite sex; especially if one or more of them appears to be and or is rumored to be a womanizer / seductress.

With that being said though, Hinako and Asahi are NOT dating / married, so him not wanting her to go to the beach with memebers of the opposite sex seems at the very least childish and at worse possessive.
This level of jealousy is fine. He's a potential love interest that is uncertain of his position. He loves Hinako and she offered him one wish and he used it to protect himself from a rival and her a potential sus womanizer. While it might not be mature Asahi is young and Hinako has not be open with what they are. That breeds doubt and jealousy. As you stated if they were fully committed there would be less of a reason to be worried. Hinako accepting shows she values Asahi and respects his concern even if she knows it's not valid.
 

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