@Hollow7F
I'm not quite understand the term (grooming), as far as I know people do it so they can have an extremely gullible partner who can be abused and manipulated to do one bidding, even if it's crime or self-harming act.
Does that mean as long as you take care for other person but not turning them to such gullible state, that act not count as grooming?
(No, I'm talking about parenting, but in relationship such as man-woman relation, like "Sincerely Duke's Maid" series)