Yeeeeeah, she totally has the whole cradle-snatching vibes, as if she were still an old adult. Can't blame Rufus nope-ing right out of there. This is reincarnation done properly, as personality problems only INCREASE with mental age without significant paradigm shifts. And death has been shown not to be enough of a dissuasion.
As for what I mean by cradle-snatching vibes, it is when a proposal is more preying than courting.