ok so could it be that also amelias task could be also a bit different from support ares
also sneaky fan service or why we see her in the shower?
also i assume amelias knows that the hero is a woman and just didnt realize that ares doesnt know this.
and i get ares point of view seeing the hero that only ones girls as a harem building playboy. most likely all other heroes before were like that. and thats why the kingdom wasnt so happy about it. a female hero makes gertting heroes blood way more difficult that a harem playboy